Bit of a brat...

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Hiya... so I guess you could say I'm a bit of a brat. I identify mostly with early-late teen years for a middle age... I'm a bit mouthy at times and challenge Daddy's authority. I guess I've been doing it a lot lately, though I haven't noticed Daddy keeps pointing it out. I talk back a lot I guess...and I guess I argue when he tells me that's enough. I don't mean to do these things, and truthfully don't even realize I do most of the time.

 

Daddy asks me why I do them and I can't answer, cuz I don't even know why myself. Now he wants to fix it, and asks me how I recommend he do so... I don't know what to tell him. Any advice from experienced littles/Daddies? If you're a Daddy, how would you correct your little for these things? If you're a little, how would you fix this when you don't realize you do it? Thanks guys!

[Antoinette]

To be honest I don't necessarily think for me it needs to be fixed. Being a brat is part of my personality and my daddy... Well, he understands that and he puts me in place but with no serious repercussions because he knows as well as I do that it's not something I can help; being a brat is just me. Maybe it's the same for you, I don't know, of course it differs from person to person but yea. Of course when I get too out of hand Daddy does put me in place by doing things like;

 

-Taking away internet time or my laptop/Xbox/phone

-Making me write lines

-Taking away points on OurHome

-Making me humiliate myself sexually (of course it is consensual) 

-He won't Snapchat me for a whole day

-I won't be allowed to sleep in my Princess castle.

 

There are plenty of things that help me think twice before running my mouth too much - consequences that aren't like 'spanks' (as I enjoy spankings), ones that would actually make me upset and learn from my mistakes. So perhaps your daddy might need to implement some consequences like this.  

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Part of it could be that, Antoinette. Our punishments are relatively limited and so I know what comes with each negative action on my part... but truthfully I think it's part of who I am. As an actual child I was super obedient, and never talked back. As a little, I enjoy things I didn't get to experience when I was younger... and I feel part of that might be testing boundaries.

 

As I said, I identify more as a teenager than a small child. My dad passed away when I was 15 and it was just me and my mother at home. I grew up that day, I had to... she had enough to deal with and normal teenage antics weren't going to make things better. At just a few months over 15, I experienced my last day as a child. My mother didn't tell me I had to grow up.... I just did. It's who I was...

 

So I think when I'm in my headspace (which is more often than it's not), I get to be a normal kid and don't even realize I am. Daddy spanks me, and while he makes sure they aren't enjoyable, they don't stick with me long term, don't help me remember.

[Antoinette]

Part of it could be that, Antoinette. Our punishments are relatively limited and so I know what comes with each negative action on my part... but truthfully I think it's part of who I am. As an actual child I was super obedient, and never talked back. As a little, I enjoy things I didn't get to experience when I was younger... and I feel part of that might be testing boundaries.

 

As I said, I identify more as a teenager than a small child. My dad passed away when I was 15 and it was just me and my mother at home. I grew up that day, I had to... she had enough to deal with and normal teenage antics weren't going to make things better. At just a few months over 15, I experienced my last day as a child. My mother didn't tell me I had to grow up.... I just did. It's who I was...

 

So I think when I'm in my headspace (which is more often than it's not), I get to be a normal kid and don't even realize I am. Daddy spanks me, and while he makes sure they aren't enjoyable, they don't stick with me long term, don't help me remember.

 

I'm exactly the same, so don't worry you're not alone! Also I'm very sorry about your father that's terrible ]: 

 

But yes, more hard-hitting (not literally!) punishments could be an answer, ones that will make you think twice about making that extra smart comment to your daddy. 

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I will have to give Daddy some of these ideas. Thank you :3

[daddies_velvet_kitty]

I don't know if this will help you but I'm naturally a brat too and always talk back to daddy. One of the tactics my daddies uses is he gives me a chance to correct myself before he punishes me. He either gives me a look, or says 'what' so i can change what I said to a more appropriate response. Us littles and brats can just say things without even realizing it so giving us a chance to correct ourselves shows my daddy if i just said what popped into my head or if I'm being a real brat in need of punishing. I hope this made sense and good luck! Side-note, I'm sorry to hear about your father but I'm happy to see how strong you are now

[Guest SifuTheWolf]

I noticed that your Daddy is not listed among your friends, why does he not have a profile here? If he should make an account have him send me a friend request, I'm a Daddy Dom to a bratty babygirl myself and I'm looking to make friends with other Daddies of bratty littles. I'd be glad to offer him advice/compare notes etc. As Antoinette said, I don't believe being a brat is something that needs to be fixed, there are however levels of bratty behavior, it's up to each individual Daddy to decide what he is willing to allow. For myself there is a line between playfully argumentative boundary/consistency testing and willful disregard of my rules. In the beginning of my current relationship my babygirl would question basically every decision I made, in large part she did so because she has an insatiable desire to "know all the things", by explaining my reasoning I was able to show/prove the logic behind my thinking, once done and my babygirl understood how/why I reached my decision she usually accepted it gleefully, over time my babygirl learned to trust my thought process, she knows I carefully consider everything and she questions me less than she used to, though questioning is still part of her nature, her doing so requires me to be on my toes and requires me to be a master at verbal swordplay, to be any good at it, you have to enjoy it. Being a Daddy Dom to a bratty little is not a lazy mans game. It's alot of work, but I enjoy it and the rewards are worth every bit of extra effort needed.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I noticed that your Daddy is not listed among your friends, why does he not have a profile here? If he should make an account have him send me a friend request, I'm a Daddy Dom to a bratty babygirl myself and I'm looking to make friends with other Daddies of bratty littles. I'd be glad to offer him advice/compare notes etc. As Antoinette said, I don't believe being a brat is something that needs to be fixed, there are however levels of bratty behavior, it's up to each individual Daddy to decide what he is willing to allow. For myself there is a line between playfully argumentative boundary/consistency testing and willful disregard of my rules. In the beginning of my current relationship my babygirl would question basically every decision I made, in large part she did so because she has an insatiable desire to "know all the things", by explaining my reasoning I was able to show/prove the logic behind my thinking, once done and my babygirl understood how/why I reached my decision she usually accepted it gleefully, over time my babygirl learned to trust my thought process, she knows I carefully consider everything and she questions me less than she used to, though questioning is still part of her nature, her doing so requires me to be on my toes and requires me to be a master at verbal swordplay, to be any good at it, you have to enjoy it. Being a Daddy Dom to a bratty little is not a lazy mans game. It's alot of work, but I enjoy it and the rewards are worth every bit of extra effort needed.

Daddy isn't much for forums... frankly, he's not a sociable person and he gets lost when he reads too much. It's not that he dislikes people so much as he just doesn't trust them and therefore has little desire to converse with them, though he is working on changing that.

 

Typically, when I post on here Daddy gets to see my posts. It helps me as I'm not well versed in verbal communication myself (I had a single friend all through school so I rarely had to express myself, and was very shy awkward and backward), but I'm quiet good as expressing myself through written word. He reads what I type and had a better understanding of what I'm feeling, then we are able to communicate better once we're on the same page.

 

I will show Daddy this post, as I showed him last night before the most recent reply. Thank you all for your help.

[AZDaddydom]

Hiya... so I guess you could say I'm a bit of a brat. I identify mostly with early-late teen years for a middle age... I'm a bit mouthy at times and challenge Daddy's authority. I guess I've been doing it a lot lately, though I haven't noticed Daddy keeps pointing it out. I talk back a lot I guess...and I guess I argue when he tells me that's enough. I don't mean to do these things, and truthfully don't even realize I do most of the time.

 

Daddy asks me why I do them and I can't answer, cuz I don't even know why myself. Now he wants to fix it, and asks me how I recommend he do so... I don't know what to tell him. Any advice from experienced littles/Daddies? If you're a Daddy, how would you correct your little for these things? If you're a little, how would you fix this when you don't realize you do it? Thanks guys!

I deal with the same thing with my princess. She is so mouthy and bratty which I don't mind but she mostly does it when I tell her to go get changed for bed or two her what to do and I think since she is still finding herself in this dynamic some of her adult independent side mixes in with her bratty side and so she naturally talks back saying she can't do this or that and I have to be firm. We are working on rules and structure so that as her daddydom I can watch and know when she can stop adulting. I Hanne found a lot of taking before hand has helped me to know when and where to punish her for her bratty attitude.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I deal with the same thing with my princess. She is so mouthy and bratty which I don't mind but she mostly does it when I tell her to go get changed for bed or two her what to do and I think since she is still finding herself in this dynamic some of her adult independent side mixes in with her bratty side and so she naturally talks back saying she can't do this or that and I have to be firm. We are working on rules and structure so that as her daddydom I can watch and know when she can stop adulting. I Hanne found a lot of taking before hand has helped me to know when and where to punish her for her bratty attitude.

There really isn't rhyme or reason to my bratiness and truthfully, I don't think I do it for any reason at all as I don't realize I am doing it. I mean, sometimes I'm a brat just because I want to be playful, and I feel that helps me, but mostly... it's accidental and I don't realize until after I've said/done it and Daddy gives me "the look/voice" that I did it.

 

Daddy doesn't even like attitude a little, so it's really something I want to work on.

[Guest SifuTheWolf]

 https://www.scribd.com/doc/51476645/The-Brat-Sub

That is a good link that sheds some light on the difference between a cheeky sub and a bratty one, and on bratty subs in general.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

https://www.scribd.com/doc/51476645/The-Brat-Sub

That is a good link that sheds some light on the difference between a cheeky sub and a bratty one, and on bratty subs in general.

Thank you very much for this.