Applications?

[Zachary S.]

Why hello there. C: This is actually my first time posting in any kind of forum, so sorry if I get a little confusing. Anyways...

 

I've been looking through these forums and a couple others about looking for an application to monitor a littles' activity and such online, both on the compiter and for the phone. Now, before I sound like a control freak, I know everyone is different in how they decide punishments or ways to figure "suspicious" behavior like "playing" without Daddy's permission and just general stuff like that.

 

So, to my real question, does anyone know any kind of application that would allow me to monitor and guide my little online? Thanks! c:

[Daisies&Donuts]

They make such apps for parents to monitor their children, to an extent, but I hope you don't intend to use these without your little's consent. Again, there are no apps that will let you see everything that someone does on their computer/phone etc. That would be a virus. You don't want to put your little in danger of someone else so you can monitor him/her. Talk with your little about what they want and look through the app store together. Best bet. There should be limits to your control, too. Do keep that in mind. It should be your little's responsibility to come clean to you. That's how trust is built. My opinion, of course. Edited December 12, 2016 by Daisies&Donuts

[daddydomandkitten]

There actually is computer monitoring software.  FYI!  LoL!

[Antoinette]

Perhaps rather than semi-stalking her and invading her privacy you could hold honest and open conversations? If she doesn't agree or feel comfortable with being monitored you are only increasing the risk of her acting out even more.

[Guest Princessaj]

Maybe you should work on your maturity? Maybe see a therapist?

 

You're afraid of something so you are projecting your fear of being betrayed onto her.

 

If you keep holding this fear of being betrayed, you will attract that which you fear.

 

Work on feeling safe and secure in yourself before trying to avoid what is running you.

 

You can't make a little feel safe in your guidance if you are afraid of being betrayed.

 

You are 19 years old. You legally can only have been in the DDlg lifestyle for a year.

You need to study more of what the DDlg relationship is all about. What a real life

relations is all about. Grow in trust. Don't feed your fear. Hugs.