Daddy punishments?

[Justmeg]

[pinkdaughter]

I'm in NZ too! I'm from Auckland, what about you?

 

And when Daddy breaks "his rules" I have tantrums But no, an apology works. Not one that makes him seem equal or less than you, because while that might work in a normal relationship this is a DDLG relationship. Sometimes I give him joking spanks but that's not really normal for a daddy dom, it's just our type of humour.

[Justmeg]

[Guest LordEmtheDinosaur!]

This is MY opinion only:

Doms should not have punishments. When a Dom messes up because they all do, their "punishment" is letting the other person down and having to fix it.

When a sub messes up, yes they get a punishment but it is the Dom who has to right the relationship again or put things in place so the offense does not repeat itself

So when a Dom slips, no punishment should be given to them because well yes, feel bad about their actions because it would very well affect their submissive. But the submissive doesn't have the responsibility to fix it, the Dom still has to do that. So why should they get a punishment and then after still have to make everything better? 

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I don't think I have the right to punish Daddy... then again, I don't give Daddy rules.

[Guest SoloFairy]

Daddy doesn't have rules and I definitely don't punish him.

[Guest Princessaj]

Why does it have to be a punishment?

 

>He says bad things about himself....then have him do something that is the correction of that.

Have him make a list of all the compliments he can think of, "I am strong," " I do x well," "I am a great Daddy...."

 

>I like goals to strive for.

"Daddy, you go x amount of time without putting yourself down and you get to have x or do x."

 

Hugs

[Justmeg]

[br4t-tamer]

This is MY opinion only:

Doms should not have punishments. When a Dom messes up because they all do, their "punishment" is letting the other person down and having to fix it.

When a sub messes up, yes they get a punishment but it is the Dom who has to right the relationship again or put things in place so the offense does not repeat itself

So when a Dom slips, no punishment should be given to them because well yes, feel bad about their actions because it would very well affect their submissive. But the submissive doesn't have the responsibility to fix it, the Dom still has to do that. So why should they get a punishment and then after still have to make everything better? 

By all means I want to give you a medal

[ocean]

On 12/12/2016 at 11:48 AM, Guest LordEmtheDinosaur! said:

This is MY opinion only:

Doms should not have punishments. When a Dom messes up because they all do, their "punishment" is letting the other person down and having to fix it.

When a sub messes up, yes they get a punishment but it is the Dom who has to right the relationship again or put things in place so the offense does not repeat itself

So when a Dom slips, no punishment should be given to them because well yes, feel bad about their actions because it would very well affect their submissive. But the submissive doesn't have the responsibility to fix it, the Dom still has to do that. So why should they get a punishment and then after still have to make everything better? 

Didn't people have the right to choose whatever role they wanted to take? I love being little, but that doesn't mean my whole personality is definite, I still have traits like listening to my daddy's problems or having fun with him which do not always round back to being little 

[beanbean]

7 hours ago, ocean said:

Didn't people have the right to choose whatever role they wanted to take? I love being little, but that doesn't mean my whole personality is definite, I still have traits like listening to my daddy's problems or having fun with him which do not always round back to being little 

Whatever you work out together and is it works for both of them what does it matter? Just talk it out and go from there