Just a Little wanting some tips!.

[ComatosedRose]

Hello everyone!.

I am quite new to this site, and still a newbie in general to the whole BDSM community.

Considering I have only been into this kink for a almost 2 years now, without any one on one in the real world, I was wondering if there are some tips any long term doms or littles would like to share?

 

Random things, nothing in particular!.

Thank you~ :3

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Hi there!

 

There isn't a right or wrong way to be a little. I don't feel like there's a list of "tips" out there to help out, it's really up to you. What do you like? What don't you like? Do you have a Daddy and if so what does he like?

 

Some littles are bratty, some are extremely obedient. Some like pacis and other little little kid things, others are a bit "older". It's really going to be up to you!

[lilsnoopy]

Here are some tips I have learned. If you don't do these things it does not make you any less of a valid little.

 

-always get pre-sharpened colored pencils

- you can make a little playlist on spotify. 

-there are a few different ways to make flower crowns, you can try to figure out what you like. 

-makeup train cases can be used for bow storage

-always store glitter in its own container with a lid

-they have coloring books with pre-shaded backgrounds

-water color pencils are awesome you can mix the colors before you turn it into paint so it is exactly what you want

-cute iron on patches can be a cheap/simple way to littleize your wardrobe 

-bows are cute at any age. I now have over 200 and try to wear them all

-you can volunteer at animal shelter and little out with the puppies

-you don't have to love pink but it's totally acceptable if you do.

-bubbles are the best stress reliever. or playing with a jar of orbeez. 

-crafting your own bows/collars is cheaper than buying them and more personalized.

-the dollar store is a great place to get little stuff: coloring books, I found a webkinz once, nightlights, a pink animal shower ball fluff thing, pacis, so on

 

the main advice for bd/sm is never betray a doms trust (don't lie. don't cheap.) and do not settle. If a guy is a fake daddy or abusive dom then you don't deserve that. 

[LoralieHaze]

Since you're new-ish to the BDSM community, one thing I would recommend for you, and for everyone here actually, is to familiarize yourself with the terminology. There are some words and phrases that I doubt you'll come across in DDlg, such as old guard, but things like consent and aftercare are absolutely essential information for anyone involved in any kink. Plus, it will help you to know what people are talking about, both online and IRL. 

 

Quick warning: Although the links I'm posting are to Wikipedia pages, the things that are being discussed (and some of the photos on those pages) are NSFW. Please use caution when doing research.

 

Glossary of BDSM terms 

Index of BDSM articles

 

I know that there are lots of terms but please don't feel overwhelmed. Take your time and learn at your own pace. Click around and see what piques your interest. Good luck!

[ComatosedRose]

Thank you three!. 

I will look at the terms, because you are on point, I do not know much terms! o>.<o thank you!