Help please /:

[KittyKatc:]

I really like being little but my boyfriend feels like it's gross and he can't get into it because of that. I feel so upset because I love him so much we've been together for 2 years and I'm tired of hiding it from him because I always feel the need to find a new daddy and end up cheating it's only been once irl but I talked to guys online a lot. Being a little makes me feel so happy because I can be silly and do things I really enjoy but I know he doesn't like it so I try not to act like that around him. I know I either need to suppress it or find someone who accepts it but I can't leave him I'm so in love with him but being little is how I handle stress and how I stay calm. I've never told anyone about it so I just need people to talk to /:

[Guest CaregiverCarlos]

It seems to me that if he can't accept you the way you are then he doesn't really love you as much as he should. If this is something you really enjoy and something that is going to be a part of your life then he isn't going to be a part of yours.

 

But do you know if he actually thinks it's gross? It'd be good to sit down with him and talk about it to come up with a compromise.

Whatever happens, I hope it works out for you.

[Antoinette]

It seems to me that if he can't accept you the way you are then he doesn't really love you as much as he should. 

 

People are attracted to different things, people have different preferences - if my daddy was into golden showers I would find that gross and quite frankly I most likely wouldn't allow him to give me one; that doesn't mean that I don't love him at all. 

 

 

I really like being little but my boyfriend feels like it's gross and he can't get into it because of that. I feel so upset because I love him so much we've been together for 2 years and I'm tired of hiding it from him because I always feel the need to find a new daddy and end up cheating it's only been once irl but I talked to guys online a lot. Being a little makes me feel so happy because I can be silly and do things I really enjoy but I know he doesn't like it so I try not to act like that around him. I know I either need to suppress it or find someone who accepts it but I can't leave him I'm so in love with him but being little is how I handle stress and how I stay calm. I've never told anyone about it so I just need people to talk to /:

 

If you've cheated I'm sorry but that's outright wrong and disrespectful. If you cannot have a fulfilling relationship without DD/lg then break up with your current partner, it is not fair to cheat on him purely because he does not have the same kinks as you. Do you really love him? Because if you did I highly doubt you'd cheat and constantly have the need to find a daddy... It sounds like you're bored of him, like you don't want him - stop using him and chase what you really want, until of course you get bored and cheat again. 

 

I'm sorry if that's harsh but I cannot fathom how you can love somebody yet betray them like that... It's not real love, you sound extremely young and perhaps immature. I don't think you know what love really is, quite frankly, because when you love somebody you don't do things that would so obviously hurt them. 

[KittyKatc:]

People are attracted to different things, people have different preferences - if my daddy was into golden showers I would find that gross and quite frankly I most likely wouldn't allow him to give me one; that doesn't mean that I don't love him at all.

 

 

 

If you've cheated I'm sorry but that's outright wrong and disrespectful. If you cannot have a fulfilling relationship without DD/lg then break up with your current partner, it is not fair to cheat on him purely because he does not have the same kinks as you. Do you really love him? Because if you did I highly doubt you'd cheat and constantly have the need to find a daddy... It sounds like you're bored of him, like you don't want him - stop using him and chase what you really want, until of course you get bored and cheat again.

 

I'm sorry if that's harsh but I cannot fathom how you can love somebody yet betray them like that... It's not real love, you sound extremely young and perhaps immature. I don't think you know what love really is, quite frankly, because when you love somebody you don't do things that would so obviously hurt them.

[KittyKatc:]

I accept that he doesn't enjoy it, he was willing to try and get used to it but I just couldn't put him through that. I didn't mainly cheat because of the ddlg we just had a lot of problems and didn't speak very much so leaving him wasn't much of an option since whenever I tried to talk him about it he would just ignore me. But we've worked past all of that and I still feel horrible about cheating and what I did. He's forgiven me and treats me so much better so I don't want to do anything to hurt him anymore. I messed up a lot at first and so did he but we've both come to terms with that and moved on from it and now I want to be able to have a relationship without ddlg but when I go into little space it's difficult not to talk about it and talk to him like so. Plus he's allowed it recently so I've gotten used to it and now I'm just sad about it because I don't want him to be uncomfortable or grossed out but our relationship has been so much better when we do this. Being younge and immature I guess I'm still learning how to work relationships and love. I understand your harsh message as I deserve it.

[Guest Daddy'sShyKitten]

Honestly, try to figure out how important DDlg is to you. If you truly think you cant live without it, and that you're just gonna end up cheating again, then it would be best to break up with him. No one deserves to be cheated on, and you both deserve to be happy. 

[chloelayne]

Cheating to me is such a pointless thing. If you feel the need to cheat then the relationship isn't working. Being cheated on is one of the worst things someone could ever do to me. Cheating is stringing someone along. You might love him but your interests clash with him. If it's not his thing it isn't. You can't force something onto someone. My suggestion is to find someone else. Tell your current partner that it just isn't working out. He will much more prefer that then to find out you cheated on him. Good luck!

[Lil_pinkprincess]