New to being a daddy dom

[Zombunicorn]

Hello, I'm new to being a daddy dom. I would like to discus with experienced daddy doms and littles, I met the woman I want to call my little little over 2 months ago, since I've met her and she introduced me to ddlg lifesyle, I've been looking online for anything and everything But I think this site has been the best find so far. I just wanna know how to be the best daddy for her.

[Ruetta]

all little's wants is so much care and be gentle daddy after getting dominated

 

here i have so link that'll guide you what to do :3

https://www.domsub.life/ddlg/top-20-things-every-daddy-dom-should-do-for-his-little/

[Zombunicorn]

This is super helpful thank you so much

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Yes yes the blog posted above is one of my personal favorites and how I discovered that DDlg even existed.

 

The most important thing with any relationship is trust, honesty, and open communication.

Also be sure to set a steady pace with DDlg and not go too deep in all at once because right now you're discovering what you like in the dynamic and what you don't.

[Guest girlyprincess]

For me, I think the best daddies are the ones that balance being dominating, loving, strict, funny, and pay enough attention. Also, I think its important for a daddy to kinda be able to like trigger little space i guess, and make u feel little and taken cared of and dominated. 

[MrB]

I agree with Erika and the triggering of little space is good as it means you listne and learn from your little and find out what it is that triggers it then mixing that in if you don't already trigger it

[DaddysMonkey]

Hello there ! I think it's great that you are willing to ask !

 

Something that stands out is that you said , " I want to be the best Daddy for her." This really makes me smile , because every little is very different so your statement rings very true. 

 

Every little is very different , with different wants and needs.

 

You could start of very simple , ad ask her things that she expects from you on a daily basis. Like , good morning texts/kisses , brush her hair once a day , ask her if she has eaten or done chores ect. 

 

Ask her what kind of punishments she thinks are fair for specific behaviors that might need correcting. 

 

Make sure she has things that she needs , not just physical and monetary things , but support in her goals and daily life choices. Give her lots of encouragement. 

 

Try giving her goals you think she can achieve , also try giving her chores or a simple workout routine to make sure she stays healthy.. as well as a healthy diet. 

 

My Daddy would like to add that littles love lots of attention , and having an arsenal of "Little" activities is important : things like puzzles , coloring books , childlike video games such as pokemon , my Daddy and I love doing origami together.

 

Also going on adventures , to the park , the zoo , hiking in the mountain.

 

If you are a LDR , you could send her care packages after she has earned stars on her chore chart. And you could have her send you pictures for proof that she has done her chores , such as her bed made every day , the healthy food she has eaten , a sweaty after picture from a workout. Ect.

 

I hope this helps <3

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

Id say getting to know her is the most important thing, getting to know her likes and dislikes and what makes her smile and not smile.

To me thats all very important, i love that blog that was posted eailer as alot of those things ring very true for alot of littles .

 

For me personally, i love having attention and love, feeling that i do have that (by asking if i ate, by giving me chores and little activites) makes me feel like im cared for and loved.

[Zombunicorn]

Thank you so much. This is so very helpful

This forum is amazing. So much I've read in just the past couple of days since joining.