LDR

[Littleharleyq]

Hi I tried asking this in a other question but no one really answered this part... im with a new daddy and he lives in England I live in America anyone have any advice to help. This is totally new for me so idk what to do. When I'm about ready to sleep his getting up when I get off work his already asleep. We talk when we can when I'm on my breaks or if we're both off work but our days off never match up so it's kinda hard. The relationship is very new so mot super serious but who knows. Any advice with this subject will help!! Thanks!!

[Einstien2]

Maybe try to write letters to each other about your day. This way when you get home or up you can read it and he can do the same.

[Guest MissNMTX]

I've found it can be useful to do messages ahead of time. Send your good morning message before you go to bed. It will be there for him when he wakes up and most likely his reply before you do. Goodnight is harder but can still be done. Emails and letters are good. Can be sent and read whenever. Try not to get hung up on the time. There's nothing wrong with random messages at random times of the day. It really is the thought that counts.Best of luck.

[Littleharleyq]

Thank u!!

[Littleharleyq]

Anyone got anything that's more of like how to keep up the little/daddy stuff with distance and timing??

[Einstien2]

Well I guess that depends in what you are looking to do. In terms of activities together you can look at things like Google drawings and have them shared so you could draw a pictures to each other or look for an app you can use on a tablet or phone to do it.

 

He can also give you things to do through the day and you can keep a diary of what you did or you can use the app ourhome to keep track of it as well.

 

Just a few thoughts

[Littleharleyq]

Thank u!

[Kitkat236513]

My daddy and I have a long distance relationship. I live in America and he lives in Australia. I not gonna lie, it's hard. First we figured out our time differences and something that helps me is my daddy stays up so he can talk to me a bit in the mornings. Maybe discuss with your daddy a designated time to talk. Even if it's for a little but, something is better than nothing. If you have any questions for me kik me at kathy236513

[Littleharleyq]

Thank u!! I don't have a Kik but I appreciate it:)

[Guest SaladHater]

I don't wanna sound like a downer but I've been with a girl who lived in turkey she's was great and everything I wanted but I had to stay up until 2am just to be able to talk to her for a couple of minutes before I passed out. Long story short the time difference can be pretty exhausting for both parties involved and eventually we both decided to just end it cause we were falling behind on a lot of our personal day to day activities.

 

I'm not saying this will happen to you but it's sometimes better to just end it before you guys get really attached and it becomes harder for both of you. Good luck !

[Guest Waiting4us]

Don't let distance make relationship distant. It is a hard time I know but let me tell you what we get after this hard time will be pleasurable and lovely and beautiful. Distance is one of those things that nothing can really change, except eliminating it all together. Couples who want, so desperately, to feel close; when they are so far apart. That is when it is to “get creative!” Find clever ways to intersect each other into daily lives. Set goals and dreams together. If there is no possible way for you to be close to each other right now, you can set a goal for when you can. When couples set goals and dreams that they can reach together, it keeps them going through the hard times, and bonds them in a mutual destination.

 

 

Ways to Stay Connected:

 

Skype

Text

Email

Send letters

Send postcards

Send pictures

Send small gifts

Have flowers or candy delivered

Visit each other

Go on vacation together

 

Ways to Maintain the Dynamic:

 

Set rules

Set boundaries

Set punishments

Give her a daily goal chart

Have her ask permission

Be there for her with love

Demand respect from her

Keep her accountable

Have access to her daily calendar

 

Dreams and Goals:

 

When can we schedule a visit?

When can we go on vacation together?

When can we move closer to each other?

When can we move in together?

What do we want 1 month from now?

What do we want 6 months from now?

What do we want 1 year from now?

What do we want 5 years from now?

 

Talk about your past

 

Talk about your fears

 

Write a blog together

 

Send each other funny pictures of things you see throughout the day

 

Make a pillowcase with the others’ face on it.

 

Get a shirt of Daddy and Daddy can get a top of his little. (I used this in my last relationship)

Edited January 14, 2017 by Waiting4us