Making Daddy feel special (LDR)

[DesiBunny]

My Daddy lives in AUS and I'm in the US. Hes super duper great and I was wondering if any caregivers or littles have tips on how to make him feel special. My financial situation doesn't allow me to send gifts at this time, is there anything else I can do?

[Guest SoloFairy]

LDR is hard but also a really unique and special experience. Daddy and I have been in a LDR for a little over a year and I can share with you some things that made my Daddy feel special. 

 

Pictures that are just for him (they don't have to be X rated) 

 

Writing "Daddy's" on my body and sending him pictures

 

Writing about how amazing he is and how perfect he is for me. I write about how much I need him and love him and how wonderful he is dealing with my bratty side lol 

 

Wearing his shirt that he mailed to me and snuggling with the stuffie he sent me during video chat.

 

I went on a hike last year and wrote "Daddy" with a heart in the mud by a river bank. He still loves that picture 

 

Anything that shows him that he's on my mind. Being thought about is really quite endearing 

 

Following his rules

 

Asking for his advice...then following it. 

 

Skype has a feature where you can have the call automatically pick up without ringing.  I brought it up to Daddy and now he gets the opportunity to check in on me while I'm asleep.  Him having that kind of access makes him feel loved, important, needed, special. 

 

I asked Daddy what he smells like then went and bought it. Now eeeeeverything smells like him. Daddy thought that was really endearing.

 

Showing your Daddy how much you appreciate the work he does to take care of you is enough to put him on cloud 9! A Daddy wants to feel needed so let him know you do

Edited December 4, 2016 by FussyNugget

[DesiBunny]

Thank you!!!!

[DaddysMonkey]

Hello ! I personally haven't been in a LDR ; but I think I might be able to muster up a few ideas for you !

 

- Draw your Daddy pictures of you to together ! Maybe in a house together , then send him pictures of your drawings !

 

- Color pictures from a coloring book and send him pictures of them !

 

- Give your Daddy a chance to have some control ; or say in your life. You could send him pictures of outfits to chose from that you can wear for the day!

 

- Maybe ask what hairstyles your Daddy likes and wear it like that in pictures you take for him.

 

- Make sure he knows how much you care about him and tell him very often !

 

- You may not be able to buy him and send him gifts , but you could do arts and crafts for him and then send him pictures of your crafts.. and save them to give to him for when you finally get to see each other !  

 

I hope this helps !

[DesiBunny]

Thank you!!!! C:

[Guest SifuTheWolf]

My babygirl keeps an online journal that I have access to, there she is encouraged to share her innermost thoughts and feelings about things in her life and about our relationship, she has the freedom of writing whatever she wants or feels like and is made by me to feel secure in the knowledge that I will not use any of it against her or share it with anyone, that helps her to share things she might otherwise be hesitant or unwilling to share. That is the definition of intimacy, being given access to her inner thoughts........... there is nothing like it on earth and I feel like the luckiest Daddy alive! It will make your Daddy feel fantastic and it will benefit your relationship too!