Don't wanna be little

[confused]

So my boyfriend and I switch roles but he enjoys being little more. Ive decided I don't wanna be a little anymore. How do I suppress the urges? And any advice for being a mommy/dominate when I'm naturally a sub? (And no I'm not leaving my boyfriend. He doesnt know about me wanting to suppress it)

[Vigorz]

You can't suppress who are no matter in what context (i.e being little or big or being gay or straight, being white or black). its who you are and nobody should feel like you have to suppress it. I believe you two should come to a compromise where you able to let your little side out. He's allowed to let this side out so why are surpassing yours? if he loves you just like you love him, he should be willing to compromise and understand just like you. Best wishes!

[Guest SoloFairy]

Trying to suppress who you naturally are is a dangerous game that will ultimately lead you to unhappiness and most likely resentment.  I denied my little side for a long long time (my Daddy is so patient!) and I would never suggest anyone do that to themselves.  Since you both are switches I don't see a good reason to deny your natural little side. He is allowed the freedom to be himself, as he should, but so should you. Since you both switch from little to CG have you tried being little together?  That might give you both what you need without feeling the need to suppress who you are. 

[br4t-tamer]

I wouldn't suggest suppressing your urges, could end bad.

[IchigoHime]

Instead of suppressing the urges, why not use them to be more involved with your little? When he is playing (colouring or whatever) join him! My Daddy does this with me and I love it, I feel like it strengthens our bond as little and Daddy. Also if you simply do more things that make you feel more Mommy like, then that should be efficient. 

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

Like all the others said, you cant just stuff that part of ure self into a small hole and pwetend to be a mommy, you have to let your little play or you will be a very sad wittle girl. I would talk to him about this and be like i want to play and be little to and maybe you guys can have a little play date ^^ i think thatd be so cool and awsome ^^

[RicanDaddy]

Don't look at it as suppressing but maybe embracing a different part of you more for a bit. We're all multifaceted and as much as we've placed labels on every single role, kink, and experience, we're all just figuring things out little by little and redefining as we go along. Good luck and I'm sure he'll show patience with you as loving has no doubt always been at the core of your relationship

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

If you're a sub, you're a sub. You can't fight nature, my lovely. What you can do is explore a different part of yourself and see if switching is something you can embrace!

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

You are who you are, you can't suppress yourself and be happy. If you want to be a caregiver, I think you should use your own Littleness instead of trying to suppress your urges.