DaddysMonkey Posted December 1, 2016 Report Posted December 1, 2016 I was curious if there are any stay at home littles on here ? Or Daddy's that provide a stay at home life for their littles ? I'm curious of opinions and lifestyles , if you enjoy it. (Daddy or little opinion wanted!!!!)
Daddy's_Babygirl Posted December 1, 2016 Report Posted December 1, 2016 I stayed home for awhile after my daughter was born (a year) and loved it! I've been back to work for over a year now and sometimes I miss being home, but I like working too. 1
Princess-P Posted December 1, 2016 Report Posted December 1, 2016 I did the stay at home thing. It was ok, but I wouldn't do it again. To each their own but I get too bored and restless. Also I love my job and my clients. And having "extra" income. I've got a good balance though, even working full time (84 hours) I only have to work 7/14 days and get a whole week off every 6th week.
IchigoHime Posted December 2, 2016 Report Posted December 2, 2016 I'm a stay at home little. I have a four year old daughter I stay home with. If I didn't have her, I probably would get a part time job or something, but I decided before I had her I would stay home. 1
Little miku Posted December 2, 2016 Report Posted December 2, 2016 Is there even daddies who provide a stay at home life? If good daddies are rare those must just be 1 in a trillion
DaddysMonkey Posted December 2, 2016 Author Report Posted December 2, 2016 Is there even daddies who provide a stay at home life? If good daddies are rare those must just be 1 in a trillion I'm not sure what you mean by this , but I am sure there are some Daddys who provide a stay at home lifestyle for their little.
Sammie Posted December 2, 2016 Report Posted December 2, 2016 im looking to be a stay at home little if i find the right Daddy
Tasha-Pasha Posted December 2, 2016 Report Posted December 2, 2016 I was married before and stayed at home during that time. I became a most excellent hostess. We lived just outside the city on a large plot of land. I spent my time gardening, housekeeping, entertaining and cooking fantastic and elaborate meals and desserts. I enjoyed this time of my life mostly I think because I got to cater to my husband so much and because I had so many people always coming by for visits so I never felt isolated or alone. We used to throw huge parties that were usually themed and well attended. I had my own car so I could come and go as I pleased. I spent hours at local farmers markets and craft fairs and spent a lot of time exploring different hobbies from pottery to sewing and cross stitching, to making stained glass windows and learning how to golf. All this to say that being a stay at home person can be nice if you are the type who can fill their days, keep busy, and not become isolated. 4
tinkerpale Posted December 2, 2016 Report Posted December 2, 2016 I'm a stay at home little~ I'm single, but I hope to crosspaths with a good Daddy who will be okay with supporting me when the time is right. I want to work & I tried to, but it hasn't worked out for me so far because I'm chronically ill. I'm gonna keep trying, but I plan to be with someone who will be just as happy with me either way.
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted December 3, 2016 Report Posted December 3, 2016 I'm a stay at home Little! My Daddy believes in "traditional" gender roles (not for everyone but it works for us) and I am off work for health reasons so I figured I would try out the housewife thing and I really enjoy it! Me and Dominus talked a lot about it during our courtship and he never tried to push his ideals on me - I am really glad I gave it a try. I was the Career driven type, I worked in social services and I gotta admit - the freedom of total submission has done me a world of good. 3
Sammie Posted December 4, 2016 Report Posted December 4, 2016 i m interested in being a stay at home little. so i am looking for a daddy interested in something like that. but i also want daddies or littles who are already in a relationship like this to give me advice or insight on it.
Antoinette Posted December 4, 2016 Report Posted December 4, 2016 Hey, I'm not a stay at home little but I would like to add a few pros and cons for you to look at. Of course, it comes down to it being the choice of you and your partner but here are a few things to consider. Cons; -You may be unfulfilled in regards to things to do with careers -You may find yourself becoming lonely and bored -You may become annoyed with having to do most of the household chores -You might find yourself in financial trouble -People may judge you for it Pros; -You get to appeal to your domestic side -You get to have more opportunities to please your daddy -You're doing what you want -No stress of work -You can actually save money by being a stay-at-home little (you do more things for yourself and don't have to pay others to do it for you) I'm sure there are many more things that could go on the pros and cons list but those are just a few off the top of my head. At the end of the day, do what makes you happy - if you and your partner (when you find one!) agree with it and are comfortable there's no reason you shouldn't do what you'd like. Just understand that people will judge no matter what, and you have to be prepared for that. 2
lilsnoopy Posted December 4, 2016 Report Posted December 4, 2016 I want to be.... well part of the time. Here's the thing we plan on getting the same degree and working in the school system. The exciting part is that we can work the same hours (or close to it) and then get summers off together. So Hopefully over the summer, time can be spent working together on projects together like my crafts, cooking, home improvement, my horseback riding, him giving me lessons (little meets self improvement ^.^), ex. All the while still having an income and a career. It also means we'll have winter break off and other Holidays off together. We have picked that path for now but it might change. but pretty much I'm sure it is what we will do. It seems like the right path for us. You'll have to find your own path but if you want a job maybe get one with similar hours so when you're home your daddy is home too so you never have to feel alone. Also there can be jobs from home which he could do and hopefully support you both. (or you could run an etsy shop maybe) I do love pro con lists like above. I suggest writing down your own personal list when it is time to make choices, look at the social and financial consequences (positive or negative) it may have. It is your life and you get to choose how to spend it. One warning I will give is that my boyfriends mother was a stay at home mother for like... 14? years I think. Now she lives by herself and it was super hard for her to get a job. There were a few factors as to why that is but one of the big ones was because of her huge gap since she had a jib. So just to think ahead and something happens after you being a stay at home little it might be harder for you to find employment. Just a factor you might not have thought about, not trying to be a downer. (Also if you run an etsy shop you can put that on your resume as a business owner I think and avoid all of this if you go that route and that is kind of something I want to do and it looks fun but that's just me.) 1
CrazyLittleBuggaBoo Posted December 6, 2016 Report Posted December 6, 2016 Mister Master and I plan on me being stay at home in time.
chibibbw Posted December 28, 2016 Report Posted December 28, 2016 I would love to be a stay-at-home-little
Princess Joe Joe Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 I stay at home and my 'job' is to attend to the house and write all of the Papas business emails. I basically am a built in secretary, but after I clean and also do a plethora of hobbies and activities. I garden, cook, knit, write casually, and expand my library of collected books. I also ship, but I have a set amount of money that Papa gives me, and I must only exceed it if necessary and with His permission. (:
Cutieebbabyy Posted January 2, 2017 Report Posted January 2, 2017 I'm a stay at home little! My daddy is encouraging me to try to find a job, but I have terrible anxiety so it is very scary for me. I do my chores at home and stay busy with my hobbies
SpinSpinSugar Posted January 19, 2017 Report Posted January 19, 2017 I work from home at the moment but due to illness will be completely a stay-at-home when I move in. Although I am often rather ill and my energy level is rubbish (so cleaning is right out for me, I'm not allowed!) I have other things to contribute. I'm the gardener and I grow lots of fruits and veggies, we are both very accomplished cooks, I do knitting, spinning wool, cross-stitch and bake bread, I smoke meats and make our own bacon (mmmmm, baaacoonnnn) and otherwise do what I can to hold my end up. In all honestly, I probably do more than I should! But I'm learning to scale back a bit. I'm in a pretty good position because Daddy works from home for the most part as well, though he does have to travel for work from time to time (something he is doing less of as he doesn't want to leave me alone so much). So we both get to potter around together in between work commitments, go for walks, have lunch in a park together if the weather is nice. It's my ideal arrangement, really. I couldn't wish for better!
MisterMomo Posted January 19, 2017 Report Posted January 19, 2017 Haha! I wanted a stay at home Mommy.. so she is always there for me when I need her! When I met mommy she did not work and was always there.. it was very nice. However now she is working full time because she wants to.. not really "need" to. She just really likes to go to school and teach. 1
LittleMommy Posted January 19, 2017 Report Posted January 19, 2017 I'd love to have it where my future little/long term partner stayed at home. I'm still establishing myself so no one will be staying home any time soon lol 1
LezBabykins Posted January 20, 2017 Report Posted January 20, 2017 I was curious if there are any stay at home littles on here ? Or Daddy's that provide a stay at home life for their littles ? I'm curious of opinions and lifestyles , if you enjoy it. (Daddy or little opinion wanted!!!!) I am a work from home little... does that count
Guest Loki Posted January 22, 2017 Report Posted January 22, 2017 I'd like to be a stay at home little as well, though I'd like to generate income with my hobbies or maybe a blog or something. While I love the idea of cooking and cleaning I'd feel more run-down if I didn't have something to do for my future. I mean, what if for some reason I found myself alone? I'd hate to have to scramble cause I'm finically in a bind.
Child Of Light Posted January 22, 2017 Report Posted January 22, 2017 No, i wouldn't Ben able to afford that! Both people should have an income and savings.
Guest Candy Minx ♡ Posted January 22, 2017 Report Posted January 22, 2017 No, i wouldn't Ben able to afford that! Both people should have an income and savings. i don't see what's wrong with it if two people agree to live, can afford to live, and are comfortable in that type of situation. it all comes down to personal preference. anyways, i'm not a stay at home little but my Daddy wants me to be one and i have every intention of doing so once i'm able. seeing as i can't work anyways due to my medical issues, it works out for the both of us.
Baby Neko Posted January 23, 2017 Report Posted January 23, 2017 I would love to be a stay-at-home little when I move in with my DD. I would have with set responsibilities to look after the house, pets kids etc. This is my dream because I have bad social anxiety to the point of not being able to go out alone some days so a regular work week is not going to work for me. So I want to look after my partner in the home instead and make their stressful week easier. I think it's great if it works for both people, is agreed upon and is affordable That said it can be risky because if you break up you would have no money of your own and no job experience.
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