Long distance things?

[Daddylovesme]

So Daddy and i arent long distance, but we spend a signifigant amount of time apart, because both of us still live with our parents since we are both in college still. Until we can get a place together ( hopefully sooner than later) we are trying to figure out ways for Him to take care of me when im in littlespace when we are apart. I tend to go into littlespace as an "escape" from my mental illness ( this is NOT an unhealthy coping method, I know what I am doing and and have the support of my therapist) and recently it seems Daddy is struggling to figure out how to do a semi "long distance" DDlg relationship. We have already talked about it and have agreed to ask the different communities online for their opinion. So what do you and your Daddies do when you are apart to help you both get the care/ give the care you need? 

~Princess Fennec

[Antoinette]

I am in a full blown LDR right now, my daddy lives in America and I live in England. I've had quite a few long distance DD/lg relationships so I think I could be of help.

 

When I'm in little space it's usually when me and my daddy are Skyping so when that happens he tends to

 

/Tell me to take the camera with me wherever I go, so he can make sure I don't get hurt. 

/Ask to see my stuffies and coloring

/Just does that general daddy-talk stuff that only caregivers can do (How do they do it?!)

 

I don't really know how else to explain it... There is this app also that I found again thanks to someone on here called 'OurHome' and it's very good for daddies and littles to take care of each other, especially long distance... He can set you tasks, set up rewards for you to strive for all while making sure you're doing productive things like keeping up good hygiene, keeping your room tidy, reading etc. 

 

Hope this helped a little!

Edited December 3, 2016 by xAntoinette

[kissingkitten]

Maybe you could have Netflix / Skype dates. Dat way chu could watch movies togedder and talk and laugh during da movie. Make voice call on skype first then stawt da movie together. Chu could also do video skype and watch the movie by video chat.