So new & so lost...

[Goodness]

My best friend of 25 years and I have been a couple for 3 yrs now. Our simple bdsm curiousities unearthed a perfect fit in ddlg. Tho total role reversals, from our real life character, I'm finding I need more Daddying during non-play. We have a huge blended family with more issues than Vogue. We both have severe ptsd/anxiety & these kids of ours spend all their energy trying to suck the positive life force from us, while driving a wedge between all of us. On top of all this, I'm an empath, with the gift of discernment. I FEEL EVERYTHING. All at once. All the time. The last 2 nights I've desperately needed a decompression time filled with soft touches, kind words whispered & a long hold in his arms. But instead he's ignored me and gone to bed, covers over his head, no words spoken. I feel neglected and ignored. So, I guess my question is, How do I get the non-sexual daddy dom to rise to the occasion? I feel my regression has increased and I'm seeking self-soothing, as of late. I'm so confused right now. I'm so new to all this, I have no idea what to do next. I just know this way of life has swallowed me whole and I'm floating adrift. I feel so silly sitting here crying to strangers. Forgive my tell-all tactic but I'm rather desperate for advice that Google cant possibly render.
✌ & ❤

Edited December 3, 2016 by Goodness

[Daddylovesme]

I wish I had advice for you. The only thing I can really say though is COMMUNICATION. Talk to him about it. Let him know you feel like youre being ignored, and that you would like to take some time off or something to just BE Daddy and little. Let him know exactly what you'd like and ask him if everything is okay on him, assure him he can tell you anything. It sounds like He may be having some insecurities of His own, and that you two might need to go on a date or just spend some time together in a non sexual stance.