Newbie Little

[LittleKat]

Hi everyone - I've always felt myself to be a sub but I recently met a guy who is a DD, and I am really eager to be his lg. We've been dating for almost a month now, and I have been researching the DDlg dynamics online to learn as much as I can to please him, and I plan to tell him of my intentions to be his to own if he will have me. Any tips on how to he a good little girl for my Daddy? I want him to be proud of me and to know that I am ready to do whatever it takes to be his perfect little girl, even if I have to fight back bratty tendencies from time to time.

[Guest]

Just be yourself dear. There is no right way to be a "good little" just you being yourself is being good. Whatever comes naturally is the best way to be

[LittleKat]

In what ways can I show my Daddy that I'm ready to dive in deeper? He has introduced the idea but he hasn't really told me to what extent he wants to take things because I think he may be trying to be careful in introducing a DDlg lifestyle. I want him to know that I'm willing to give him my all.

[Guest]

Then tell him that. Communication is a huge part of any relationship, from the start. Tell him what you said here .

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

Agreed with Arya, just be yourself, let him get to know the real you. If he really liked you and wants you to be his little hell understand and accept you for who you are regardless.

Go step by step and day by day

itll work out.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I would for sure go slowly with this lifestyle if it's not one you are familiar with. It will help prevent hurt feelings. There are so many nooks and crannies in it that it's easy to find things you love as well as things you hate. Also keep in mind if he is to be your Daddy there is a good chance he will be doing the guiding, so he will probably set the pace. Communicate with him openly what you're okay with and what you're not and let him know if you want more... just don't rush it.

 

Best of luck :3

[LittleKat]

Thanks! I think that is my hope...We are spending time together tonight, and I want to let him know that I am ready for him to help me explore this lg role more. He knows I'm new to it, and he's a very caring and communicative man, so I know he'll be open and honest with me about his needs. I also don't want him to feel like he's doing all the work, though. I'll be interested to find out exactly what DDlg means to him and what type of little he prefers. I know that bratty behavior can often trigger his aggressive sexual side, he doesn't seem to be into age play (but I could be wrong), and he's very protective and caring. 

 

I also don't want him to think I'm simply trying to play along just so I can have him. I've always felt submissive and recently had a conversation with a psychologist about the types of submissive roles I might fall into and we both felt like I was leaning toward something more akin to a role that seeks out both punishment and adoration rather than shaming or pure objectification. I want my Dom to be someone who inspires me to be a better person and to reach for dreams rather than simply living in his shadow, and I want him to be so strong, smart, caring, and ambitious that I can't help but admire him above all others. I want someone who has my best interests at heart, especially when I veer off track. I think this man may have the capacity to be that, so I'm a little nervous but excited to see what happens next. 

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

It's still a pretty new relationship so take things slow! Explore together, learn, and always communicate!

 

Being Little is who you are; it's a part of you! Just be yourself - let your inner princess guide you!!

 

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