My daddy is new to ddlg

[Littleharleyq]

Hi ppls!! So I have a new daddy on my hands. His never heard of ddlg but has we've talked his clearly into the kinky stuff and has been acting like a natural daddy. I mentioned it to him and he said he was interested and was excited to try it... heres the the thing I wanna know what's the best way I can help him learn what he likes about the lifestyle and what he doesn't. I dont wanna force what I like on him or make him feel like what I like he has to like. The other problem is that I'm in America his in England and we have never physically meet.... any advice on that??? Thanks for reading!!

[DaddysMonkey]

I have never been in a LDR , so I can't give much advice there. 

However , I showed my Daddy this documentary and he said it kind of made him feel more comfortable , and like he wasn't alone I suppose. (that was before finding this site hehe)

 

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uJLAkZfhmQ4&list=PL6kozyEbIQ-zGaParpC8ilENNR6ptmuh3

 

NSFW ^

 

It has multiple parts to it.

I hope this can help him in some ways.

[Antoinette]

AAAAHHHHH I WAS IN LIKE THE EXACT SAME SITUATION AS YOU!

 

My daddy was completely, 100% vanilla when I met him and before we started dating. What I did was just talk to him about what DD/lg was, what I incorporated into my life in regards to DD/lg and how I usually would like and Daddy dom to act, and like your s/o my Daddy took on the caregiver role quite naturally.

 

What I will say though is it does take some leadership skills in guiding your new daddy through this lifestyle. Lucky, I have quite good leadership skills and my daddy was a quick learner but this doesn't hold true for everyone. I know there was an old user named 'AnneMarie' (not sure if she still uses this but she was brilliant) and if you search her name (make sure you've changed the category to members) she has a link to the post she made which has TONS of helpful links 

[Baby_squirrel]

[Littleharleyq]

Thank u everybody!!! It all is very helpful!!!

[Littleharleyq]

Does anyone have any advice about the distance?? Cuz thats where I'm really in over my head

[Guest girlyprincess]

I recently was in a relationship with a seemingly suuuuper vanilla guy. We would tag each other on instagram in pictures that we would consider "couple goals" and would make us think of each other. So one day, I tagged his on a pic that was on a ddlg account, it was just dialogue between a little and a daddy and i told him to just ignore the daddy nickname part. Anyway, he didnt wanna ignore it and said he really liked it. I would continue to tag him in stuff like that on ddlg blogs and he would do the same because he liked it a lot and he sorta learned how to act and what to say (like terminology and phrases) by that. So i kinda guided him i guess with instagram and tumblr stuff that i would message him and he understood the ddlg dynamic without me having to confront him about it and actually explain.