Am I the only female/little who doesn't like to accept friend requests/messages from other males/daddies?

[Guest Daddy'sShyKitten]

This might sound weird to some, but, like the title implies, does anyone else not like to accept friend requests/answer messages from daddies/males when they already have a daddy/boyfriend? It makes me feel sort of uncomfortable and even a little guilty. 

 

Sorry for random question, was just wondering if it was just me..  

 

-Kitten :33

[Guest]

I have no issue with being friends with daddies or males when in a relationship. I am loyal af. I am not gonna flirt , or let someone flirt with me and if they try, best believe I am putting them in their place. (And removing/ blocking them)

[SirDaddyJsBabyGirl]

I am allowed to talk to and respond, but I can never be submissive to anyone else or get the off. 

 

Sir did say I can be a Dom to someone else, but I don't have a Dom bone in my body.

[Guest SoloFairy]

I am not allowed to be friends with or message with any Doms/Daddies/Mommies/Dommes. This has been a long standing rule of Daddy's.

[Little Illy]

You do what makes YOU comfortable. But I wouldn't be happy if I was restricted from speaking to someone simply because of their gender or role they take in their own life. I think that as long as you are loyal to one another, there needn't be this limitation. Now, letting your Daddy (or Mommy, or little) know of these friends and conversations are important, of course. And if someone is trying to flirt or not respect your relationships, cut all communication, but if they are legitimately friends, I wouldn't stop talking. In MY opinion (which of course can be 100% incorrect) I think it is selfish to limit a person's ability to make friends - that is projecting doubt and fear of disloyalty. 

[Guest]

i rarely accept friend requests, even if i do not have a Daddy

i get a lot of random requests... if i've not talked to you in chat, odds are - im not accepting your request.

[SassyAssyBrat]

I not be friends wif other daddys. Daddy says I can be fwiends wif who I wants, but I not feel comfortable wif it. I not mind having wittle boys as fwiends though

[MadameButterfly]

I don't accept friend requests from other daddies either. It's not an actual rule with me, but I don't like accepting from them and I know my daddy appreciates me denying other daddies too. I have my perfect Daddy and I don't need any other

[Spooky]

If I have talked to a guy via messaging, a post in the forum or chat; I have no problem adding them. I do not accept random friend requests at all.

[Baby_squirrel]

I do not have a daddy, however you aren't alone in this. I don't add people right away. My rule is to wait 2 weeks or more, to build up a general trust of them via forum post or talking in chat. The exception is if I have a question for them regarding a post that I do not want to discuss with the entire forum.

[Daisies&Donuts]

I'm emotionally sturdy enough to simply delete anyone who does or says anything I find remotely inappropriate. As a result, I give anyone the benefit of the doubt, unless there's something crazy on their profile or in one of their posts. Others are quite bothered by inappropriate behavior/words and let's just be honest: there are a lot of gross and evil people out there in the interwebs. So, it is absolutely acceptable to not add someone to your friends list if you don't want to. If you are worried about hurting someone's feelings, maybe you could put a disclaimer in your profile "Not adding Daddies to my friends list right now, but thanks for checking out my profile! See you around the forums".... something like that?

 

But remember you don't owe them an explanation either. You are free to do what you want for any reason or no reason at all

[BrattyKat]

My Daddy doesn't have rules concerning friendship with other males, whether they're Daddy Doms, vanilla, or other. But I don't accept random friend requests. I feel we need to have at least participated in a same thread for it not to feel random and weird.

[Guest SifuTheWolf]

My babygirl (FussyNugget) is not allowed to be friends with or message with any Doms/Daddies/Mommies/Dommes and in the spirit of fair play I do not friend/message any littles, just Daddies. As a result I often read where some thirsty daddy/dom is complaining to my babygirl that I'm not a "real daddy/dom", that I'm not confident or trusting etc etc etc. Fact is I have access to all of my babygirl's online accounts and I know from experience that most of the guys that try to contact her really are after just one thing, making her theirs. Besides that my babygirl is very impressionable and I don't want her listening to some other Daddy as to what he likes and or his opinion on things. The only person she needs to be concerned about pleasing is me and nobody can tell her what I like better than me. Also, my babygirl cannot get enough of my attention, if I have time to chat to a little shouldn't it be spent chatting to my own, wouldn't I be cheating her out of my time by messaging some other little? My baby would say I was (as she slit the throat of the other little I was talking to) lol. My babygirl and I are both very possessive, we both like it that way. I think the only rule to follow on this is just do what works for you.

[mintymew]

it makes me uncomfortable and I'm not allowed to talk to other males or daddies/dom's

I'm his smol, nobody else's!

[roseyposey]

I don't mind accepting friend requests. If they say or do something out of line, I can always block them.

[IchigoHime]

On here, I do not accept friend requests from Daddies. I'm just not comfortable doing so here.

But on other places I will accept them if a friendship is developed beforehand and they have my Daddy or Protector's permission to speak with me.

[Guest tempy]

As a general rule for myself, I don't accept friend requests from anyone I've not interacted with in chat or on a forum thread in which we've addressed one another. However, out of respect for my Daddy, I do not accept friend requests from any Daddy Dom without his permission. Even without that, it makes me uncomfortable to accept those requests if I'm not familiar with the person.

[Guest sweetheart-little]

My daddy and I made a rule similar to this, I can't follow or allow follower/friend requests from other males. He is not aloud to accept requests or follow females.

Although I don't like to because it makes me feel guilty as well. The rule was made purely because of controlling behavior and as I made the rule because I am the jealous type. Regardless of the rule or not. I wouldn't out of feeling uncomfortable or guilty too.

[Frog]

I don't think I could send a friend request to a little. There's a very good chance the little has a daddy/mommy/cg, and I would feel very uncomfortable feeling like I'm trying to start something. I apologized to a daddy here because I didn't know his little's name (his little's name is a noun) and I used the name in chat. It sounded like I was talking about nsfw photos. I felt bad about that, so I can't bring myself to possibly causing any strife between a DD and a little.

[Guest Kittehmuffin]

I have no problem with talking to other Daddies and my Daddy knows I do. I know he talks to other Littles too. We're both secure enough in our feelings for each other that it's ok. We trust in us.

 

Plus he knows I am good at putting boundaries down and if I feel someone oversteps I won't hesitate in telling them. He is too.

[Veelababy]

I feel the same way! I just joined this forum and I got a "daddy" friend request already! Just 5 minutes into creating my account! Some people are desperate! I want them to talk to me a good while before accepting any friends requests!

[Librarybunny]

I often find it uncomfortable to talk to other males (IRL) and lots of online experience hasn't really helped it. I'm skeptical and paranoid a lot of the time and have to often take a step back. For me it isn't a loyalty thing or a security thing in a relationship but just general weariness of other people. 

[BigCityLittleGirl]

Don't feel bad. I'm not here to meet daddys I'm here to meet other littles. I find it odd that I've been getting requests from guys I've never interacted with here before. I'll add a guy if he's cool but I've not been here long enough to chat with anyone.