Difficulty Fully Regressing?

[Ayru Bear]

I'm not sure if it's just me, or others who are neurodivergent but do you all ever have trouble allowing youself to be fully little?

 

Like I would really love a caregiver but the idea of being wholly little scares me. Like letting myself be happy and silly and color and roll around with my plushies in front of someone makes me so nervous I don't even allow myself to be fully little on my own.

 

Like I can watch cartoons and have my paci, but I can snap out of that comfortable place at a moment's notice. Like.. I can never put my guard down.

 

Does anybody else have this problem? Or did anyone else have it before they found their CG?

[MilkyUsagi]

I'm not sure if it's just me, or others who are neurodivergent but do you all ever have trouble allowing youself to be fully little?

 

Like I would really love a caregiver but the idea of being wholly little scares me. Like letting myself be happy and silly and color and roll around with my plushies in front of someone makes me so nervous I don't even allow myself to be fully little on my own.

 

Like I can watch cartoons and have my paci, but I can snap out of that comfortable place at a moment's notice. Like.. I can never put my guard down.

 

Does anybody else have this problem? Or did anyone else have it before they found their CG?

 

I'm fully little/middle, and I do it naturally, I have to control myself to look adult even with my voice that looks childish everytime I'm embarassed or when I have to talk with adults I don't know and sometimes I wish I have a groner voice but then I realize it's just me and they love me as I am so I cheer myself up and get courage :3 if you feel like that you should get courage and be yourself <3

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I don't fully regress, either. I don't know that I ever will. I have two young children so full regression is kinda out for me, as I can be their playmate, but I have to be mommy too.

[MilkyUsagi]

I don't fully regress, either. I don't know that I ever will. I have two young children so full regression is kinda out for me, as I can be their playmate, but I have to be mommy too.

 

I used to be a scout master and I was a little like them but also a second mom <3  I played with them but also keeping attenctiond and giving them advice and teachings 

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

I personally dont think im ever fully little, im little and i like little things and love my paci and sippie cup and like dressing up but im never fully 100% little. Part of me is always big and ready to do something if i have to (like defensive over my little side)

[Ayru Bear]

It's pretty validating to know I'm not alone in this. I'm not -super- little either. Baby talk bothers me and even as an actual kid I was never eager for attention. I was rather independent, so maybe that's another reason why?

 

But either way! It's really good to know others are like me and can't or don't become 100% little.

[Daisies&Donuts]

When you were a kid, did you try really hard not to be a kid? A lot of kids find shame in being a kid, so they try to be an adult. So maybe it's the kid in you trying to be an adult and holding you back from regressing. Does that make any sense at all? I think it will be important for you to find a partner who can make you feel really comfortable about being little. Someone who genuinely enjoys seeing you act that way and knows how to encourage it. 

[Guest ammy]

I am that way, the last time I was on here i was replying to a topic about not being able to feel little..

it makes me really sad, like others have said i could have a paci, stuffy, cartoons and a coloring book but still not feel little. I don't know what's wrong with me ? it was like, my best and only coping skill and it just dissapeared. I feel left out of things, and sometimes i have to wonder if i'm even a little at all.

Sorry if this is a downer post!! I just wish there were a checklist of "steps to being little" or a button i could push to just transform. I hope you're feeling okay, you can message me and i'll try to check this site more frequently, so talk to you soon maybe !