to convince a little one

[Robshik]

Hello first of im sorry for my english, its my third language and its not that easy for me to write in English.

 

Im new too this scene and I found a little girl who is looking for a Daddy. When I first saw her Picture, she looked like a little Angel and I would do anything for her. I told her already that I would give my best. If she would let me a chance. But still no yes : (

 

Do you have any tips to convince someone? That im the right Person?

 

Ps: Its such a great Forum and im really thankfully that I found it <3 I hope you can understand a little bit, what im trying too ask : )

[Guest whatever]

You can't really convince someone that you're perfect for them. And you shouldn't have to either.

Perhaps she doesn't want to rush into anything. A DDlg relationship is intense and a huge amount of trust is involved, it is not something you should rush into.

It sounds like you have gone solely on her physical looks. Take the time to get to know her, learn all of her little quirks first. Then she may feel like you are the one. And if she doesn't, there isn't anything you can do to change her mind.

She may be perfect for you, but that won't mean you are perfect for her.

Edited November 30, 2016 by _LittleBear_

[Robshik]

_LittleBear_ thank you really muc, you helped me reaalllly much <3

[Spooky]

Just responding to say LittleBear is exactly right. You cannot convince anyone into anything. If she is into you, she will let you know. Best of luck!

[HeCallsMePrincess]

it's like any relationship. it has to develop over time. and if she's being cautious, that's a good thing. dont rush into things. 

[Robshik]

Thank you really much. I really appreciate your answers, it really help me.

 

Somehow i feel really sorry, that i tried too convince her, maybe I was just scared that i could loose her. Im not sure but again reaaally really thank you ^-^

[Antoinette]

I agree 100% with what LittleBear has said, also just because nobody else has said so - your English is fantastic! Especially as it's your third language, that's really awesome!

[Tora-L-Vergil]

First off, good job on your English, it's very good. Better than most native speakers communicate in writing, in all honesty.

 

Second, not much to add to the previously given advice, your trying to find the right person for both of you and not sell someone a new brand of laundry detergent after all, other than to say that you should just make an effort to get to know her more and see if she is right for you and you for her and vice versa. You can have a vastly different opinion of someone after knowing them for 3 years than you did after 3 months, or even 3 months instead of 3 weeks. You absolutely never want to rush in to any kind of relationship that involves committment. BTW, are you connected with her on Facebook, Twitter, or whatever kind of social media presence she has? That's always a great way to get to know someone a little more, and you don't even have to dress up or leave your house for it. Good luck!​

[Robshik]

Tora-L, thank you too for your kind words : ) I think I wanted too ''sell'' myself as good as possible and totally forgot that I dont even know that little girl. And thank too you guys I opend my eyes again and see it now from a other perspective. And from now on, I dont rush it or try to convince her, I take my time to get to know her and learn all or maybe a little bit of her quirks first. ( ye i stole that sentence ^.^ but it contain all what i wanted too say)

 

And its such a great Forum ! Thank you all again, you are really really good Person and I hope you have a beautiful day as whoever you are <3

[SharkPrince]

If your pure motivation for entering into any kind of relationship with someone is based purely off how they look in a picture, maybe you need to rethink and not rush into things?