How did you introduce Dd/lg into your relationship?

[Littlebee]

My husband and I had never heard of ddlg. But, when we met, he understood that I had a grown up toy box and a little girl toy box. I have always used little space to clear my mind and he seemed to get that. My husband is also a nurturer. He loves taking care of me but isn't into the idea of rules or punishment.

I only brought up this term recently and and he seemed unaffected. But to my delight, he started bringing home little candies, toys or hair bows that he would usually only pick out for our daughter.

It seems like you're already there and may not know it. My husband still doesn't use labels but the caregiver behavior and attitude is alive and well. Good luck! And side question- do you love playing with your kids when you're in little space? My daughter loves it when I break out the color books or princess toys.

[hbear]

I met my daddy on a dating website. and he informed me he was very interested in BDSM (as was I). I told him I was also interested in ddlg. And he said he had no experience, but was willing to try.

[DaddysgirlKan]

I just told my partner I wanted him to be daddy. Then I sent him some explanations and showed him some stuff, although he showed major daddy signs, I think that over time from me sending him stuff and his own research made him open up to his daddy side and now although he's still growing he loves it. The best thing I did was speak to him. I feel complete now. Like where I was unsure I'm sure, my dummy's, my cups, everything is just there and he's completely happy with it. Don't get me wrong were always growing always learning but simple awkward extremely frightening conversation brought us to where we are. And I have real severe anxiety, panic attacks. If I can you can. Hope it all goes your way

[Xela]

Lucky for me he was already a Dom, but he described himself as a "general Dom." It became clear to me (and him!) that he was Daddy material. When we discussed where we were going he was comfortable entering the Daddy role and I couldn't be happier. 

[Mathilda-Chan]

Hi everyone ! Well ... I've got a little problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 month, and he's very nurturing, sweet and silly with me, and sometimes I even call him Daddy. But I feel more and more little everyday, and I would like to turn my vanilla relationship into a DDLG one, but there's something that upset me : There is NO WORD in French to translate ddlg. And so, I find it more difficult to explain this lifestyle :/

 

I'm also wondering if it is worthy to tell him ? Since he already act a little bit like a Daddy ? Do we really need to put a name on our kind of relationship ?

[DollDirector]

Hello there !

 

replying to Mathilda-Chan:

 

I don't know any word either,and I think it's possible there won't be any,unless our canadian friends who are better at that,find one.

ddlg sums the relationship in ...4 letters very efficiently and is likely to be adopted as such.

There is a good side to this: If a translation is needed,we are free to give to the person we are talking to,an explanation of our own...

[Guest bigdaddy352008]

it was my little that suggested it to me