Are there many Christian/Religious Littles/Daddies?

[Guest sightsoblind]

The worst part of the unequally yoked verse is that it is used as a reason for believers to push away people who haven't found their faith yet. Is it not better to live by example and allow our loved ones to come in their own time with out the threat of. "I found god but you haven't so I'm gone." Let us live as an example of god working within our lives and let that example be a beacon unto others. You can not change the way god choses to work within another. I truly believe the point of the verse SO often missed is that you should not stay with someone who condemns your faith. If they do not believe but support you in yours then let them find their own way. It's not until others in our lives are telling us that our faith in God is wrong or they use it against us. I.E. A person of faith being in a relationship with an Atheist who uses it as an argument of your sanity/intelligence. THIS is not someplace you should stay. This is what god warns against. After all how would any of us have found God without others in our lives knowing him first and showing us the path.

[Baby_Bows_]

I am a Jesus follower and my Daddy is not. Please dont trot out the verse about being unequally yoked I'm familiar with it already He has his own spiritual beliefs and seeing as spirituality is a very personal journey for us all, I would never want to come between him and the lens through which he sees the world (our anyone else's for that matter). I spent a lot of time exploring other faiths before Christ revealed Himself to me and I honestly wouldn't trade that experience :3 I think wandering taught me a lot about compassion.

 

I do tend to get very excited about Jesus if the topic comes up. I try very hard to keep my relationship with Him strong. I am currently looking for a church but seeing as how folks of my denomination are few in number and kind of run the ideological gambit (I'm Anabaptist) I've had to kind of throw denomination out the window for now lol so as long as me and all members of my family are welcome I'm not too particular

 

My last church's pastor was a self-professed "purity geek" and was not very sex-positive at all. :/ not that my sex life needs to be a public issue but I feel like our sexuality is God-given. Why should we be ashamed of the way we love eachother? As long as it doesn't come between you and your relationship with God I say live and let live

Good points and thank you for sharing. I was raised in a very "close minded" church about sex too so grew up thinking a lot of how I felt was forbidden. I do know diffently now

 

Though I know the "unequally yoked" verse the Bible does say that you can also set the example by living for the Lord in your marriage. I think Sightsoblind posts that above me ^^ glad she pointed that out.

 

I am also super glad you get excited about talking about Jesus and glad you are keeping your relationship strong with him. I love talking about him too. And surprisingly I get in little space while doing it. The Bible does say to have a child like faith so maybe that's why? Idek. I'm very happy to be me and very thankful I was created to be a little. Very nice to meet you!

[DaddyJsPrincess]

YoU guys are just wonderful ♡

 

Sightsoblind I really love your interpretation of that verse! It has always troubled me.

 

Baby Bows, I think it's awesome that you can go into little space when talking to the Lord! I wish my faith was so childlike :3 I didn't truly believe until a few years ago so maybe that's my problem lol

[Baby_Bows_]

Bump

[LilPetPet]

Hi everyone! I am new to the forum

My Daddy/Master/Husband and I are Christians. I find no conflict between our faith and lifestyle, because we are careful to only do the kinky things that are honoring to the Lord. We keep sexual things out of the public eye and keep our sexuality just between us as a married couple.

 

Our M/s and DDlg relationship has really solidified the biblical submission and domination that is the structure of a healthy, Christ-centered marriage.

 

I like the idea of a kinky bible study. I wish we could start one, too! (But, pf course, it would have to be Daddy's idea). *pouty face*

[Baby_Bows_]

Hi everyone! I am new to the forum

My Daddy/Master/Husband and I are Christians. I find no conflict between our faith and lifestyle, because we are careful to only do the kinky things that are honoring to the Lord. We keep sexual things out of the public eye and keep our sexuality just between us as a married couple.

 

Our M/s and DDlg relationship has really solidified the biblical submission and domination that is the structure of a healthy, Christ-centered marriage.

 

I like the idea of a kinky bible study. I wish we could start one, too! (But, pf course, it would have to be Daddy's idea). *pouty face*

That's how daddy and I are. The things we allow are hororing or they ain't done. My daddy and I are thinking about starting an outreach for this and possibly and online bible study kink group but it would be God lead acuz daddy is a new pastor and he is learning too. I am very glad you commented.

[lil' one]

First of all, now I want to tear a box of cookies open and eat them all while sitting in my Papa's lap. I just had surgery on my mouth and can't eat anything!!! For two weeks!.Oops. I'll stop my tantrum now. Thank you for listening.

On a serious note, Papa can quote scripture better than anyone I know but I am the prayer, bible thumping, church going one of us. Papa has been hurt by the church but still absolutely believes in Jesus and His love for all His children. With that said, Jesus says to love each other as we want to be loved (I am no good at quoting scripture and Papa is too busy to ask).

I want to be loved as the little/middle I am and He wants to be loved as the Dominant/Papa He is. Since starting this dynamic in our lives, we haven't been happier.

I lost a lot of myself in my teens and early 20s and truly feel God had given me my Papa so that I can rebuild trust, love, and grace back into my life. Without Papa's help, I couldn't do it. The most important thing is to keep God strong in your life and allow Papa to help guide you too.

Remember, God wants His littles happy too and gives us our perfect match who compliments us and helps guide us on our journey in life.

I hope I've help and that you have a blessed day! Off to have milkshake for breakfast now. Guess there is one good thing to not being able to eat.

[PrincessJou]

I just read every comment on here and I cannot believe that I'm not the only one that felt like this xD. This is an amazing topic!

[TheTeacher]

Wow, I don't think a single atheist came forward.

 

Well, I'm an atheist and unless you have a literal interpretation of scripture, I don't see any interference.

[MrBonesWildRide]

Wow, I don't think a single atheist came forward.

Because this is a Christian thread, you damn knob. Removed your image too.

[Baby_Bows_]

First of all, now I want to tear a box of cookies open and eat them all while sitting in my Papa's lap. I just had surgery on my mouth and can't eat anything!!! For two weeks!.Oops. I'll stop my tantrum now. Thank you for listening.

On a serious note, Papa can quote scripture better than anyone I know but I am the prayer, bible thumping, church going one of us. Papa has been hurt by the church but still absolutely believes in Jesus and His love for all His children. With that said, Jesus says to love each other as we want to be loved (I am no good at quoting scripture and Papa is too busy to ask).

I want to be loved as the little/middle I am and He wants to be loved as the Dominant/Papa He is. Since starting this dynamic in our lives, we haven't been happier.

I lost a lot of myself in my teens and early 20s and truly feel God had given me my Papa so that I can rebuild trust, love, and grace back into my life. Without Papa's help, I couldn't do it. The most important thing is to keep God strong in your life and allow Papa to help guide you too.

Remember, God wants His littles happy too and gives us our perfect match who compliments us and helps guide us on our journey in life.

I hope I've help and that you have a blessed day! Off to have milkshake for breakfast now. Guess there is one good thing to not being able to eat.

For some reason I'm not getting alerted when people comment on this thread anymore. Thank you so much for sharing! I am glad you and your papa love Jesus!! That so cool that he is a walking Bible! I understand getting hurt by the church- I'm so sorry he has been:( that seems to happen a lot.

[Baby_Bows_]

I just read every comment on here and I cannot believe that I'm not the only one that felt like this xD. This is an amazing topic!

Thank you! I am glad you found this thread. It seems like it was a question on all of our hearts and none of us wanted to ask.

[Tread]

Don't know if this is on topic, but I'm trying. Soooo my parents are and i was christian, but I became aethiest later in life. My little is a mormon and I know she has problems with this lifestyle and her religion sometimes. But I help her through it and yeah. :-/

[cutie_patootie]

I belong to a wonderful church but I do struggle... not only with being a little but also with being lesbian.  I have days where I truly dislike myself and everything that being a little girl in nappies (who also happens to be a lesbian) entails.  But then I also think of how much He loves me and how God sacrificed his only Son so that we can have new life.  It's not something that I feel comfortable discussing with anyone at church though so I keep it to myself.  I realise that's not always a good thing to do but there's really nobody else with whom I can discuss my little side.

[Baby_Bows_]

Don't know if this is on topic, but I'm trying. Soooo my parents are and i was christian, but I became aethiest later in life. My little is a mormon and I know she has problems with this lifestyle and her religion sometimes. But I help her through it and yeah. :-/

Thanks for sharing!! *hugs*

[Baby_Bows_]

I belong to a wonderful church but I do struggle... not only with being a little but also with being lesbian. I have days where I truly dislike myself and everything that being a little girl in nappies (who also happens to be a lesbian) entails. But then I also think of how much He loves me and how God sacrificed his only Son so that we can have new life. It's not something that I feel comfortable discussing with anyone at church though so I keep it to myself. I realise that's not always a good thing to do but there's really nobody else with whom I can discuss my little side.

I absolutely adore your screen name! *hands you cookie for creativeness* and I'm sorry you're having to deal with all of that. My kik is always open if you need to talk. It's princesspoptart1990

[babygirl12]

I'm not Christian, and I don't have a daddy and I explore my identity on my own for now. I am religious, but I have never seen anything in my religion, or others for that matter where religion clearly forbids anything like this. And so, religously, I don't have a hard time with it.its people I have a hard time with. 

 

My grandma was molested as a child, and I do fear her finding out about my identity and mistaking it for something else. Even though I'm estranged from my dad, my dad finding out scares the crap out of me. Even ethough I NEVER called him daddy growing up, it just scares me. 

 

So for me, people scare me more than religion with my identity. 

[mylittlemermaid]

I struggle with this a lot it's very frustrating aND upsetting to me and I fear that I am distancing myself from God because of my desires

[Guest littlegirlkirky]

This is actually something that I struggle with a lot. I grew up Christian and my parents and brother still are. I've been slowly backing away from it for a while. I've always had a problem with organized religion because of a lot of bullying, better than you attitudes and shady stuff that happened at my church when I was younger. Id definitely say my idea of religion and Christianity has changed since I started in this lifestyle and it's still something I struggle with all the time. My Daddy is married and all though he has told me over and over again that it was strictly a green card marriage and they don't do anything with each other, (she's in another relationship as well which made things a little easier) It's still hard knowing I'm committing adultery and im having sex outside of marriage with no intent to ever get married. Personally I have found myself slipping away from my faith, which I've always had a hunch would happen since I was a child, but I know that God still loves me and I still love him.

[Guest Miss Braid]

I'm Mormon and I feel a bit of internal struggle about the lifestyle and the Church, but as long as it's inside of marriage, no one can really say anything. I do hope to get married someday <3

[LB Chris]

The trouble with 'organized' religion can be all too human judgements creep into that which inspired them coupled with  power structures and so on coming into them.

Personally, I'm a Christian Scientist and my understanding of our form of Christianity has nothing that prevents me from fellowship and reflecting those values in the wider world including purity of thought, word and deed. My faith is a very real refuge.

[DaddyJsPrincess]

To all of you who expressed that you're struggling with your faith right now:

I had a crisis of faith that lasted for like 8 years. I jumped from faith to faith trying desperately to believe in something and then decided I ought to just give up and be agnostic. Only after exploring other faiths/losing my faith all together was I able to discover a passionate faith in Jesus. I honestly believe I wouldn't have the strength of faith that I do if I hadn't wandered around a lot first. there is always hope as long as you keep looking for it

[Guest clownyprincette]

-

Edited April 16, 2016 by clownyprincette

[tinykitty]

I got my worries of "Will God hate me?" out of the way when I realised I was asexual,  I was near a breakdown over it.  Even though I knew he didn't hate any other orientation (despite the disgusting things I was raised to believe about others, women, and so on), I felt I'd be hated (not other asexuals though, just me) and I've been childlike my whole life, it's just the way I am so I figure God's used to that about me, I am this way 100% of the time I guess?  I mean sure I can hold adult conversations obviously but there's always still this childlike-ness (?) to me in everything I do.  It's like my brain just didn't grow up properly and if God wanted me that way, I mean all grown up and serious then that'd be the way it is but it's not so I must be fine as I am.  So I figure since the asexuality thing was okay, and the whole "can't have kids" is okay, then my kinks and being little or whatever (I can't find a solid definition so I don't really know what I am) then I think that's okay too.  I prayed anyway and felt okay.  I felt relief about it all.

 

So... that's that.  We're cool and I feel okay with it all.  

 

I've tried to answer this several times since last night so hopefully this time I don't hit the back arrow due to anxiety (like all the other tries)

[HoneybeePrincess]

The way I see it is that Christianity, as all other faiths, put a powerful fear into the believers about what is and is not okay sexually and in all other morals. Stories of Jezebel, Sodom and Gomorra and so many others referencing sexual orientation and proclivities, morals and values serve only the purpose of instilling fear. 

 

But I believe that God is love.

 

I am a Christian. My faith is deep. I am a thinker. I am realistic. If no sin is greater than the other in God's sight, do you let the occasional blaspheme slip past your lips make you feel like a heathen? Do you drink alcohol, smoke a cigarette, get tattoos, pierce body parts, over eat, or cut your hair...defiling God's temple...and let that make you feel repentant? Would you go to hell for those things?

 

Consider this...Why were Adam and Eve given an independent will? And was it really independent will if they didn't know they had choices? Like sex. Why was the Earth created to be so large, yet only have two human occupants? If they never bit into the fruit, yet saw two animals mate, and realizing they had similar body parts to the animals they saw, would they not experiment? If Eve was created as a perfect companion, and having been given female genitalia why would one presume God would build her to fit with Adam's male genitalia?

 

The Bible was written in an age and by men who believed in the "morals" they touted and according to their educated knowledge.

 

My faith tells me that God loves me, that I am imperfect and that the best I can do is unto others as I would have done to me. No, even I can not judge myself. You can't either. My faith tells me that if I am the best human I can be, law abiding, compassionate, and giving then I have done what I believe God wants me to do. 

 

Inclusive of sexual proclivities, if all sins are equal, that time when I was about three and stole a "Snorks" eraser from my uncle's store means I'm already going to hell because even then I knew stealing was wrong. 

 

I do not know that the Bible is right or true. I believe that the social values it teaches have merit in any society and that most laws mimic those values. Logic tells me that men wrote the Bible and my faith tells me that only God can judge my sins.