Baby_Bows_ Posted April 16, 2015 Report Posted April 16, 2015 I was wondering if there are many Christian littles/bugs on this site or in the lifestyle? My daddy and I are very active in church and have a deep relationship with Jesus and I wonder if religious/Christian people struggle with and feeling like this lifestyle isn't okay because it is a bit different. Personally after prayer I am great with it, but would like to know if there are more like us. Dramatic sigh. That was a lot of big stuff... Back to little space! Gasps excitingly.... Daddy is asleep on the couch and I am unsupervised.... COME HERE COOKIES!!! 11 1
Xia Posted April 17, 2015 Report Posted April 17, 2015 I believe in God, but my religious beliefs are all over the place. I believe most religious have something true to them, not just the typical Christian view. I'm not active religiously because of the way I believe. It's more of a passive instead of practiced thing. But I do pray occasionally. I don't struggle with whether or not I think this lifestyle is right. I mean, I don't think God much cares about our personal choices like that. >< 2
Guest sightsoblind Posted April 17, 2015 Report Posted April 17, 2015 Jesus said this rule above all else love thy neighbor as thyself. 6
Guest sightsoblind Posted April 17, 2015 Report Posted April 17, 2015 You are quickly becoming one of my favorite people on here lol
Mega Matt Posted April 17, 2015 Report Posted April 17, 2015 Hahaa, well just so you know, sometimes I sit in a room alone, and eat peanut butter right out of the jar, with a screwdriver. So there's that.This is a really great topic lamalittle2015, 2
Guest AelaFluvux Posted April 17, 2015 Report Posted April 17, 2015 Hahaa, well just so you know, sometimes I sit in a room alone, and eat peanut butter right out of the jar, with a screwdriver. So there's that. This is a really great topic lamalittle2015, Sorry. I don't know why, but I laughed so hard when I read this. You're funny Burning_man
MrBonesWildRide Posted April 17, 2015 Report Posted April 17, 2015 I'm not deeply religious, so obviously I'm not your targeted audience. However my parents are deep Christians and being raised that way I understand somewhat. The primary teachings of Christ don't necessarily find themselves deep in the confines of the kink world. The reason being that apart from strict fundamentalists interpreting sex as a monogamous union, there's not a lot you can use to reach for when you get into the actual terms of the relationship. If you're talking about the potential grief that may come from either sex out of wedlock or the idea of adopting a childlike mentality in your relationship, I've become of the belief that it's completely a subjective opinion and that a true follower of God (Jesus/Mohammed/etc) would not judge one another on the foundation of the relationship. I don't want to over assume, but it might be that outside people may be influencing that potential struggle because they aren't level with you in what you like. This is somewhat normal considering our differences with vanilla people as a whole, so it's not entirely a stretch to see where you might struggle a bit more in a religious setting. 2
Guest sightsoblind Posted April 17, 2015 Report Posted April 17, 2015 Hahaa, well just so you know, sometimes I sit in a room alone, and eat peanut butter right out of the jar, with a screwdriver. So there's that. This is a really great topic lamalittle2015, Well just so YOU know sometimes I put half a jar of Jelly into half a jar of peanut butter and eat it with my fingers for no better reason than daddy doesn't want to touch it after I do and its all MINE MINE MINE! 1
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 17, 2015 Author Report Posted April 17, 2015 hi. I'm a devout Catholic and also very active in church, and I completely get what you're trying to say. it's a bit hard right? It is. And its hard finding sites and things that keep things pure. Like I can't find a clean dd/lg story to read to save my life! I am concerned about play dates too. 2
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 17, 2015 Author Report Posted April 17, 2015 I believe in God, but my religious beliefs are all over the place. I believe most religious have something true to them, not just the typical Christian view. I'm not active religiously because of the way I believe. It's more of a passive instead of practiced thing. But I do pray occasionally. I don't struggle with whether or not I think this lifestyle is right. I mean, I don't think God much cares about our personal choices like that. >< Giggles... I remember when I use to think God doesnt care about little personal things until he showed me different I prayed to find some little friends and he sent me some and I prayed for a Belle cup because I didn't see any at our Walmart but when I went back two days later I found one. He loves us too much not to care about personal details of our life but I definitely know he blessed daddy and I with this lifestyle. 4
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 17, 2015 Author Report Posted April 17, 2015 I'm not deeply religious, so obviously I'm not your targeted audience. However my parents are deep Christians and being raised that way I understand somewhat. The primary teachings of Christ don't necessarily find themselves deep in the confines of the kink world. The reason being that apart from strict fundamentalists interpreting sex as a monogamous union, there's not a lot you can use to reach for when you get into the actual terms of the relationship. If you're talking about the potential grief that may come from either sex out of wedlock or the idea of adopting a childlike mentality in your relationship, I've become of the belief that it's completely a subjective opinion and that a true follower of God (Jesus/Mohammed/etc) would not judge one another on the foundation of the relationship. I don't want to over assume, but it might be that outside people may be influencing that potential struggle because they aren't level with you in what you like. This is somewhat normal considering our differences with vanilla people as a whole, so it's not entirely a stretch to see where you might struggle a bit more in a religious setting. I don't struggle with it personally. I worry others Christians do. But being little is so much fun and such a great help to those of us with mental disabilities and I wants them to get to have it toos!! 1
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 17, 2015 Author Report Posted April 17, 2015 Hahaa, well just so you know, sometimes I sit in a room alone, and eat peanut butter right out of the jar, with a screwdriver. So there's that. This is a really great topic lamalittle2015, Tanks.... For saying it was a good topic... Not the screwdriver thingy.... I'm pretty sure that's not safe.
Little_Ghoul Posted April 17, 2015 Report Posted April 17, 2015 My Daddy and I are Christians. I sometimes struggle with the feeling you were talking about but then I remember "I am special the way I am and I know God loves me". That a long with prayer and veggietales lol helps a lot! My Daddy and I are actually thinking about starting a kink bible study group in our area to help others deal with those emotions. 5 1
Guest sightsoblind Posted April 17, 2015 Report Posted April 17, 2015 Ok totally for serials right now. If you fully put your faith and trust in God our father you must know he knows the name of every hair on your head. He made them and you just the way you are. Who are you to deny his wisdom. Follow the teachings of the son and you will be just fine because Christ is my final authority. AND You want a clean DD/lg story I'll custom write you one I need 3 things. Names for baby and daddy, favorite pet names/term of endearment, preferred stuffie description. Then just give me a bit of time maybe a week or so and I will write you a short story. 2
Xia Posted April 18, 2015 Report Posted April 18, 2015 Giggles... I remember when I use to think God doesnt care about little personal things until he showed me different I prayed to find some little friends and he sent me some and I prayed for a Belle cup because I didn't see any at our Walmart but when I went back two days later I found one. He loves us too much not to care about personal details of our life but I definitely know he blessed daddy and I with this lifestyle. I had a feeling I worded this wrong. >< I meant more along the lines of God loves his children and the relationships they have are not sins, no matter how many might try to twist it that way. Or several other things such as beiing trans or having tattoos. God created you, but you are free to be yourself. As long as you're content, I feel it's fine in the way I believe. Do I make more sense?
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 18, 2015 Author Report Posted April 18, 2015 My Daddy and I are Christians. I sometimes struggle with the feeling you were talking about but then I remember "I am special the way I am and I know God loves me". That a long with prayer and veggietales lol helps a lot! My Daddy and I are actually thinking about starting a kink bible study group in our area to help others deal with those emotions. That's so amazing. I wish you lived in Georgia. I'd be all for that. You should move to Georgia. Like right now! Giggles. That is super cool! 2
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 18, 2015 Author Report Posted April 18, 2015 Ok totally for serials right now. If you fully put your faith and trust in God our father you must know he knows the name of every hair on your head. He made them and you just the way you are. Who are you to deny his wisdom. Follow the teachings of the son and you will be just fine because Christ is my final authority. AND You want a clean DD/lg story I'll custom write you one I need 3 things. Names for baby and daddy, favorite pet names/term of endearment, preferred stuffie description. Then just give me a bit of time maybe a week or so and I will write you a short story. Kenzie-Kate and Onyx for names. Princess, Daddy's girl, munchkin and swear pea, An old floppy bunny that she takes everywhere. A blanket with her name monogramed on it. Daddy owns his own business and works from home. She sleeps in daddy's bed. Her daddy could have a brother named Zander and he has a little too. Her name came be Jasmine and she's called Jazzy Bugg. I gave you lots of help:) Oh, and they're married. And someone has a kitty cat..... Named Marco. 1
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 18, 2015 Author Report Posted April 18, 2015 Hello! I was raised in a very strict Christian household and although I consider myself Christian, I wouldn't say that I'm as conservative as my parents (obviously). My relationship with God is my relationship with God. My beliefs are somewhat all over the place and may not follow traditional Christian beliefs, but my lifestyle doesn't harm anyone. DDlg is all about love and care and I can't see why God would be so upset over something so beautiful such as that. My kink life and spiritual beliefs used to be something that I struggled with but now I have accepted that both can co-exist! Holds up princess sippy cup- cheers to co-exisitng!!!
Guest Sae Posted April 18, 2015 Report Posted April 18, 2015 IamaLittle2015, I'm here to tell you, you can not post three times in a row on topics. you can do it twice. If you are replying to people, hit the multiquote button and you can reply to about 10 people I think it was.
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 18, 2015 Author Report Posted April 18, 2015 IamaLittle2015, I'm here to tell you, you can not post three times in a row on topics. you can do it twice. If you are replying to people, hit the multiquote button and you can reply to about 10 people I think it was. Oh. Okay thanks!
HisCreation Posted April 23, 2015 Report Posted April 23, 2015 My Daddy goes to church. We both have a firm belief in God, but neither of us feel at home in church. We often speak of God and learn from each other. But we know we would not be accepted openly. To each their own.
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 23, 2015 Author Report Posted April 23, 2015 My Daddy goes to church. We both have a firm belief in God, but neither of us feel at home in church. We often speak of God and learn from each other. But we know we would not be accepted openly. To each their own. That makes me sad that you feel you wouldn't be accepted, I think a lot of people feel that way about church in general. Sometimes I worry people in our church will find out and be judgmental, but I just trust God about it. He knows my heart. I sent you a friends request because I think you're super cool!
MrBonesWildRide Posted April 24, 2015 Report Posted April 24, 2015 That makes me sad that you feel you wouldn't be accepted, I think a lot of people feel that way about church in general. Sometimes I worry people in our church will find out and be judgmental, but I just trust God about it. He knows my heart. I sent you a friends request because I think you're super cool! What I've found is that while you don't have to be out-and-out open or closeted about your lifestyle. Generally speaking, most people would consider the dynamic of our relationships to be an in-the-bedroom experience and therefore not something to openly disclose. But I've found that honesty, when/if confronted about either potential slip-ups or just in general, allows for an open discussion. You hit it right on the nose though. God would know your heart. 3
Baby_Bows_ Posted April 24, 2015 Author Report Posted April 24, 2015 What I've found is that while you don't have to be out-and-out open or closeted about your lifestyle. Generally speaking, most people would consider the dynamic of our relationships to be an in-the-bedroom experience and therefore not something to openly disclose. But I've found that honesty, when/if confronted about either potential slip-ups or just in general, allows for an open discussion. You hit it right on the nose though. God would know your heart. Thanks And I love when things lead to open discussion. I want other people to know about this lifestyle and that's its okay. When I was younger and just starting out I was with a man who loved pain and.... Like darkness. I would let him seriously inflict pain because I didn't know I could be a little girl without getting beat. Its like a young ignorance. I worry other young people will want this type of life and be in the same situation I was in.
DaddyJsPrincess Posted April 24, 2015 Report Posted April 24, 2015 I am a Jesus follower and my Daddy is not. Please dont trot out the verse about being unequally yoked I'm familiar with it already He has his own spiritual beliefs and seeing as spirituality is a very personal journey for us all, I would never want to come between him and the lens through which he sees the world (our anyone else's for that matter). I spent a lot of time exploring other faiths before Christ revealed Himself to me and I honestly wouldn't trade that experience :3 I think wandering taught me a lot about compassion. I do tend to get very excited about Jesus if the topic comes up. I try very hard to keep my relationship with Him strong. I am currently looking for a church but seeing as how folks of my denomination are few in number and kind of run the ideological gambit (I'm Anabaptist) I've had to kind of throw denomination out the window for now lol so as long as me and all members of my family are welcome I'm not too particular My last church's pastor was a self-professed "purity geek" and was not very sex-positive at all. :/ not that my sex life needs to be a public issue but I feel like our sexuality is God-given. Why should we be ashamed of the way we love eachother? As long as it doesn't come between you and your relationship with God I say live and let live 2
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