have any other littles start crying in the middle of intimacy?

[sleepy kitten]

personally my father was barely there, and when he was it wasn't happy times. I don't know how this relates but yeah.

I used to think dd/lg was not my thing but I've been exploring with a close friend who is now my "daddy"

 

last night things were getting heated and I couldn't help but start crying. every time he or I called him daddy, or when he'd call me his good little girl it just hurt more and more until I burst into tears.

I enjoy dd/lg with him and my daddy was really sweet and comforting about it.

 

but the crying thing was really shocking and I wanted to know if anyone else has experienced it? I just felt icky throughout the whole thing.

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

If things start to heat up in the bedroom and I'm not out of Littlespace, I become more emotionally sensitive and tear up more often. I'll cry more easily when his voice becomes more stern and/or louder. Keep in mind though, I'm already a very sensitive person. 

 

If you don't like being in that situation, have you tried triggering yourself to be "big" again? I know Littlespace is different for everyone, but a lot of Littles tend to go into a different "headspace" if you will. For example, I don't typically play with my stuffed animals. But when I feel little, if my Doggie isn't at my side at all times I won't stop until he's been rescued from the void.

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

I had this happen today, i was talking to someone and they were telling me how i was safe here and they wanted to give me a hug only if i wanted to, i let my little out and stood there and started crying randomly, the more i felt safe the more i cried. I honestly felt very very safe but i just kept crying

[IttyBittyKittyCat]

I used to but it went away as our relationship progressed

[princesschibi]

I've been going through a tough time and recently I found myself crying after. IDK why but its happened every time for the last couple of weeks.

[monkey]

personally my father was barely there, and when he was it wasn't happy times. I don't know how this relates but yeah.

 

well sure it relates. now you finally have someone to give you the care and love that your biological father never did. you have someone to call "daddy."

 

I found myself reading ddlg literotica and just sobbing during the scenes where the daddy puts the seatbelt on his little girl or says "i'm so proud of you." it's all part of that dream of having the daddy that never was. 

 

that's great that your partner was understanding and sweet about your reaction. I think the best thing you can do is be honest with him about why you have such a strong reaction to this type of play. 

 

remember that tapping into your most suppressed and strongest desires could lead to something really beautiful if you take the time to understand it <3

[Aisling]

From my psych major perspective...I think part of why some of us cry during these more intimate times is that it is kind of an emotional letdown or catharsis. I know for me, if I have a lot of emotional stuff going on or something catches me off guard emotionally during intimate times with a partner it can lead to tears during or after when I least expect it too. But I cry at the drop of a hat anyway. I would be gentle with yourself and try not to read too much into it. Just think of it as your body releasing something it needs to release at that moment in time and it is healing. Hopefully your Daddy will be understanding and do whatever you need him to do to help you through those times.