Long Distance Help

[MadameButterfly]

Hi everyone, I was wanting some advice from Littles in a LDR. I know being in a LDR can be very diffucult sometimes because of the distance and even more so because us Littles always want our daddy/caregivers attention and it's very hard sometimes when we don't get to have their attention all the time.

 

I was wondering what some of you do to help you get through it, when your daddy/caregiver is too busy with work, to give you all the attention you usually get? What helps take your mind off of it?

[IchigoHime]

When I can't talk with Daddy I write in my little space journal. I keep my rules and tasks in it and journal entries on how I am feeling along with doodles. It helps me feel still connected to Daddy despite not being able to talk to him. And when he came to visit this month he wrote a note and drew a picture in it for me.

[Guest foxylady]

Find a hobby, n do it while he is busy or sleeping.. That's what i do. Do something u likes to fill the time..

[nymphet trainer]

Have you not been able to discuss this with your own daddy. Communication is key.

 

He will be able to guide you through the quiet times and even give you little tasks to carry out. You could also even read through your previous comments m

[littlecub]

My Daddy gives me homework sometimes to keep me busy. It can be finishing that picture I have been working on or learn a new song on my ukelele and play it for him when he comes home from work. Find something that works for you ^.^

[MadameButterfly]

When I can't talk with Daddy I write in my little space journal. I keep my rules and tasks in it and journal entries on how I am feeling along with doodles. It helps me feel still connected to Daddy despite not being able to talk to him. And when he came to visit this month he wrote a note and drew a picture in it for me.

I've been wanting to journal a lot, and decorate it with stickers and drawings. I just have to get a journal that I like. Plus some of the super nice ones I love are so expensive.

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

✨ i've been in a LDR with my Daddy for about a year now, what helps me

a lot is occupying my mind, i sort of have to because i'll get all yucky if i don't.

i watch tv, movies, cartoons when my Daddy is working or out. i like to hang out

here as well, it's been super helpful ever since i started having issues with my 

migraines and working abilities. i play games on my phone and computer.

hang out with my younger sister when i can, i have 7 dogs so i'll go outside with

them an awful lot. talk to my birds. play with the cats. text my best bud, she's

six handfuls of entertainment. i also enjoy brainstorming DIY LDR gifts.

take the ideas, make them my own and find the materials to do it. that's 

the most fun!

 

another one that might be a little weird given the situation is i go snuggle on the

shirt he left with me, or just touch it and it puts me in a happy space because i 

think about a lot of good times and it makes me more excited and i look forward

to seeing him even more than usual.

 

i'm hoping to introduce the idea of double journals with me and my daddy,

something like writing our own and sharing to let the other read type of ordeal.

since you already write your own journal, maybe consider him writing one as well

and reading one another. sometimes reading is easier than listening or talking.

i personally communicate better through text and face to face and as of rn, all

i have is ldr!

 

i'm hoping to ask my own Daddy for daily tasks that would keep me busy and active

homework and the like.  there was a cool LDR website i'd give but i can't seem to

locate it.

Edited November 29, 2016 by ❅ Snow Bunny ❅