New Little//Questions

[MonsterPrincess]

Hi, I'm new to this whole thing. I don't have a 'Daddy', though I want one.

I'm really just worried about age/religion/sex stuff, see I'm 18 about to turn 19 but I promised my conservative Christian parents I would wait till I was married for sex.

Can I have a Daddy without having sex?

Should I stick with my parents wishes?

Have any of you met a Daddy whose a Christian?

Have any Dads and Littles gotten married?

I'd love any advice!

Edited November 24, 2016 by MonsterPrincess

[Guest LicklePrincess]

it's not very clear what you are actually asking advice on. try to be specific so people can give you the best answer they can

[FLdaddy]

Well you promised your parents you would wait for sex. Obviously you were raised in a Christian home and you respect their wishes. This is the tricky part. It is your body and you can do what you want with it! The hard part of the is do you 1. Stick to your promise and wait? 2. Break the promise and feel good/bad about for however long? 3. Or do you just do other things and save the sex for your wedding night? We all here can give you all the advice in the world. Everyone will have their own opinion on it. No matter what the choice is yours. You are the one who has to live with it. No one said it will be easy!

 

Now the real trick is finding a boy who will respect your wishes and not force you into anything! You need to be up front with him is you go number 1 on him lol. If they can't respect you then that are not for you! So good luck and take care!

PS. Good for you that you want to wait till you are married!

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

If your question is can you be a little with a Daddy and remain a virgin, the answer is absolutely yes! Many littles and their Daddies aren't sexual at all. It's all about your relationship dynamic.

[Guest softheartbruisedknees]

Hi! I was also raised in a conservative Christian home and expected to remain a virgin until marriage. As it turns out, the only person I've had sex with is my husband, but we started before we were married. 

 

But I will say that if you want to get in a serious relationship with someone, it's important that you are sexually compatible. I was lucky enough that my Daddy & I were, but some people who waited until their wedding night have not been so lucky. 

 

It's your life & your body. Your sexuality is in your hands. Just make sure that if you do have sex that you use protection 

 

P.S. I don't think you'd have a problem finding a daddy with your beliefs and background. 

Edited November 24, 2016 by softheartbruisedknees

[Princess Domme]

Im also 18, a christian and a virgin.

I think your question is having a daddy that won't demand for sex?

First off, keeping your virginity should be because you have a conviction to and not to fulfil all righteousness to your parents.

The thing is finding that guy (Vanilla or not) that shares the same values as you do.

Not all Daddy's/ Caregivers want just sex. you just have to find someone who you can connect intimately on other levels without sex.

Always remember #YouAreMoreThanYourPussy

[IchigoHime]

If YOU want to wait for marriage to have sex, but also want to be a little - that is completely okay! Littles are not meant to be little sex toys (though some are for their Daddy and enjoy it). Just when you meet someone you think you want to be your Daddy, let him know ahead of time what your wishes are. 

[MonsterPrincess]

Im also 18, a christian and a virgin.

I think your question is having a daddy that won't demand for sex?

First off, keeping your virginity should be because you have a conviction to and not to fulfil all righteousness to your parents.

The thing is finding that guy (Vanilla or not) that shares the same values as you do.

Not all Daddy's/ Caregivers want just sex. you just have to find someone who you can connect intimately on other levels without sex.

Always remember #YouAreMoreThanYourPussy

Thank you so much, I was so scared that I was going to be the only Christian girl on here. Just the fact that your on here makes me feel better but your reply helped immensely. Thank you for answering some of my questions!

[Guest Princessaj]

There are a lot of wonderful Christians on the forum. Welcome.

[Harley_Quinn]

Yes you can have a daddy without sex. The entire beginning of me and my daddy's relationship was sexless because he wanted every time to be special.

 

You should if that's what you want. Do you want to wait till marriage or are you just doing it cause they say you have to

 

My daddy is Catholic lol I'm the Christian

 

We're engaged so lol

[raynedrop]

Your life, your chooses sweetie. Your parents have no right telling you what to do since you're 18, your sexuality is not their business. With that I will add it is possible to get a daddy who isn't 100% sex and will wait if thats what you want.