looking for advice and tips

[CaliDaddy43]

Hey everyone. I'm brand new to the DDLG lifestyle and would like meet some new friends to kinda show me the ropes. Thanks for reading.

[Guest ShyShytheCryBaby]

Hi there! Welcome welcome to the DD/LG community. Its and awesome place to be! What kind of tips are you looking for? 

[CaliDaddy43]

I know what I am looking for in a Little. I guess I just want to know if there is any etiquette that I have to follow before I can start searching. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

[LoralieHaze]

Since you are admittedly brand new to this, what you should be doing before you start searching is learning, both about DDlg and BDSM. So many people here seem to believe that step one of being a part of this lifestyle is to find a partner. While having a partner is wonderful, having one so soon into your journey is actually detrimental.

 

We cannot expect our partners to teach us everything we need to know about this. Not only because none of us are experts, but also because not everyone sees or defines DDlg in the same way. Plus it's just too much pressure to put on a person.

 

With or without the proper etiquette, this place is chockful of littles and you could probably start a relationship with one today. Just because you can, that doesn't mean it's a good idea. Will it be fun and exciting? Probably. Will either of you know what you're doing? Will it be fulfilling? Will it last? Probably not.

 

You said that you know what you want in a little girl but do you know who you are as a Daddy? Do you know what will be expected of you? Do you know what taking on that role will entail? Do you know what you want to offer? Do you know what you can comfortably provide? Are you strict, lenient, somewhere in between? Are you prepared to give aftercare? Can you remember the names of all her stuffies? Okay, that last one is a joke, but these are the sorts of things that you need to think about. These are the sorts of things that every potential Daddy Dom needs to think about. The same applies to littles. We can't only know what we want in a Daddy, we also have to know who we are as littles and what we can bring to a DDlg/CGL relationship.

 

A few things that are important to remember:

-take it slow

-develop a solid friendship first

-no pet names until you're more than friends

-little girls are adult women, so please treat us with the same respect and courtesy that you would treat any other women with

-use the same etiquette that you would in a vanilla relationship.

[Guest Princessaj]

LKL, OMG! can we please bronze your brilliant reply/comment and make it a must read for every CG candidate!!!