How do you get over this?

[iJoeyMonster]

TRIGGER WARNING: Loneliness, sadness, abandonment.

 

 

My most recent Daddy abandoned me and I'm so depressed. I can't stop crying and my sleep is messed up. I don't have the energy to eat or be awake. How do I get over this and move on? I'm so hurt.. still hurting. I just.. don't know what to do. I feel so lonely, and I don't have many friends to turn to. I feel like I'm alone in a big world and I just want to hide.

 

Any advice..? 

Edited November 22, 2016 by iJoeyMonster

[Beasourous]

Im sorry.. It will take time for the hurt to heal.. I have been abandoned by a daddy before so i know how painful it can be. You can always surround yourself with all the nice people here.. Talk about your feelings and let all the thoughts and pains all out.. Slowly, you will feel that the pain gets lesser and lesser... Time is always the best medicine.. *huggies*

[iJoeyMonster]

But how do I talk about it? In chat I feel like I don't belong. *Hugs*

[Guest Wholockprincess23]

TRIGGER WARNING: Loneliness, sadness, abandonment.

 

 

My most recent Daddy abandoned me and I'm so depressed. I can't stop crying and my sleep is messed up. I don't have the energy to eat or be awake. How do I get over this and move on? I'm so hurt.. still hurting. I just.. don't know what to do. I feel so lonely, and I don't have many friends to turn to. I feel like I'm alone in a big world and I just want to hide.

 

Any advice..? 

The best thing you can do for yourself right now is surround yourself with things that make you happy. Do activities that bring you joy, listen to music that makes you feel happy, watch shows that make you feel happy, and finding someone to talk to is always great.

 

There are plenty of nice people here on this forum that would let you talk to them. I'd be here if you needed to talk. If you want to, you can message me. I have a lot of experience with abandonment, unfortunately, and I've always got an ear for anyone who just needs to get out how they're feeling.

 

Sorry you had to go through this. <3

[Guest Daddys_ace]

So this happened to me a few months ago and I was crushed that someone I cared about could just disappear. I'm pretty sure I know how you feel. I'd like to say it gets easier and it does but it takes a long flipin time, I sometimes catch myself trying to Skype or message my daddy when I'm excited or upset about something because it was second nature to do so. The feelings dissipate, and after a while it just doesn't bother you as much as it did before. So far I've been keeping busy, started running, tried to make friends on here to share things with instead of my former daddy. If you ever want to talk even if it's something silly or about your day you can message me, I totally get it, thinking about it now I could almost cry. You will be ok, and one day the perfect person will come along for you, not the person who just fills a void for the current time frame.

 

Hugs and kisses!

 

ACE

 

KIK: Daddys_ace

[iJoeyMonster]

Thank you both for your answer. I think I'm slowly starting to feel better. I actually had some motivation to clean up today! I haven't had that kind of motivation in so long. I do need to find friends. I just hope I can belong here soon enough. During the day I'm fine most of the time. It's at night when the pain becomes more apparent, because I don't have the energy to hold it back anymore.