First time as a Mommy

[Guest Cloud9Dreamer]

I've known for a while that I'm a Switch, sub and dom, Little and Mommy. I had a Daddy for nearly a month, and it was fantastic. I would love to have a Daddy again. But then I decided to search the personals and found a Little Boy searching for a Mommy, and he'd just about given up because no one was responding to him. I read his personal and just couldn't believe how sweet and nerdy he sounded. I thought it was time to give being a Mommy a try, so I replied to him and sent him a friend request. We've been talking ever since, and he really wants me to be his Mommy now, but he doesn't wanna rush in. He's already slipped up a couple times and called me "mommy", but it doesn't bother me at all. He's had mommies before, but he told me they were very cruel towards him. He has cerebral palsy and wears a diaper for his incontinence and simply because he also enjoys them, but he's not a baby. (It's so hard not to call him "baby" or "baby boy", I so want to!) He told me one of his mommies made him crawl to the bathroom because he'd been sick and went number two in his diaper, which he usually doesn't do. From what he's told me, none of these mommies have treated him well, making me the first to actually care for him and his needs. I have some rules thought out, as well as punishments that he'll be able to do since 1. he lives far away, and 2. his cerebral palsy. Part of me feels like I'm doing well right now, and that when we're both ready to move onto the actual mdlb relationship, I'll feel more comfortable in the role. I'm naturally a very caring dom, always have been, and I would love to show him real care and affection, but I still feel like I'm rushing and trying to take on too much at once. Any advice would be most appreciated

[Guest Firefly]

Hey there,

 

As a switch and someone who has cared for a long distance little prince with needs let me start by saying you are doing just fine. If you feel like you are rushing then stop a moment and look at the big picture for you two. Is he happy? Is he comfortable? Are you? Communication is key to it all and just be open to what he thinks nad has to say. You'll do great!

[Antoinette]

First off I'm so sorry that your little has experienced such horrible treatment that sounds really bad ;-;

 

I think as long as you're both comfortable at the speed the relationship is going and you know you're not rushing anything then why not go for it? What have you got to lose? (:

[sephiroth]

you can start a mdlb realitionship slowly , you can first call each other by the name you like , decide on how much times a week/month you skype (since it a long distance) , you can first talk about which rules you would like but implement them only after a period of time.
as a caring dom i am sure you know to be flex and you will be able to take care of him, I have faith and you