i scared away my little PLEASE HELP

[babysdaddy]

okay so i talk in my sleep. and i dont know what i said but i said to to my babygirl that made her feel like i didnt want her, which is the furthest thing from the truth. its been weeks and i still cant get her back, can anyone please help me?

[Guest SoloFairy]

Is there anyway you can get her to tell you what you said? It's kind of hard to know a good way to approach it without knowing

[Trash Queen]

Ah, mate. Unless she's top tier irrational, I doubt just talking in your sleep would scare her away. I think there's more going on here.

 

 

Either way, the only way to get someone back is approach them calmly and honestly with the intention to discuss the relationship and any past mistakes. But if she's decided to leave for good, you need to accept it and move on.

[Guest CarolinaDaddy]

damn b 

Edited November 21, 2016 by CarolinaDaddy

[IchigoHime]

I agree with Trash Queen, there must have been some other underlying issue she had. I don't know why anyone would leave someone over something said in their sleep, unless you said something like you wanted to kill her or something. You could either calmly approach her and try to resolve it or just accept she left and move on.

[babysdaddy]

nono its not like that. my girl is still with me, its her little.

[IchigoHime]

If its her little, she should talk to her not you.

But I think it still applies.

[babysdaddy]

yeah but thats the thing. her little isnt coming out to her either.

[ziva vlad's kitten]

How do you know, that it's because of something you said is your sleep?

[babysdaddy]

mt girl tild me thats what it was

[ziva vlad's kitten]

So she remembers what you said?

[babysdaddy]

im not sure

[ziva vlad's kitten]

You should ask her. And ask her to please tell you what you said.

[Guest OverDaddy'sKnee]

It does seem odd that she'd leave you over something said in your sleep. As a few others stated, there's possibly an underlying issue which you aren't aware of. With that said, if weeks have passed without hearing from her, it's probably time to move on. You'll find the right person.

Edited November 21, 2016 by OverDaddy'sKnee

[sephiroth]

is your realtionship with your girl still good or is it suffering too right now?

[babysdaddy]

me and my girl are good, buts its her little side, her little who disappeared

[SharkPrince]

If she's your girls little, sounds like there may be some latent jealousy running amock

[Princess-P]

I think what he's saying is that his girlfriend won't be little around him any more.

 

It still doesn't make much sense. If you said something so bad that she's now unable to be little... But yet her "big" personality is fine with it... I dunno. Seems like a scapegoat. She probably just doesn't want to be involved with CG/l anymore and didn't know how to be honest with you. Clearly if she can't tell you what you said then communication isn't her strong point.

[Princess_Mica_18]

Agree with Princess-P, I'd suggest finding some time to talk about what happened and how you can try to resolve things and if not what the next best step is

[babysdaddy]

just thought yall should know that she came back!

[BigTyler]

I wouldn't let the issue sit on the backburner. It sounds to me like something else happened that she didn't want to confront you about. Even though her little side came back you should still press to find out what really happened so the problem can truly get resolved. Nothing ever fixes itself on its own in a relationship. You have to talk about it