Just a Question

[Guest Firefly]

Hey all,

 

So as some on here know I am booty liking for a relationship outside of platonic between myself and the chosen DD. This got me thinking...do you think its possible to mix domestic discipline/rules/routine with the friendship, love and care of a daddy in a professional, platonic standing?

 

I'm curious what others think.

 

 

 

Annnnnnnnnd go!

[Spooky]

I absolutely think that relationship dynamic is possible!!! All you need is communication!

I actually know someone who has been in this dynamic for years!!!

[Guest Firefly]

Really? That's encouraging! It's pretty much what I'm looking for. I don't want to date, just need that guidance if you will. As well as a friend.

[Guest SoloFairy]

That's definitely possible and not uncommon at all. Maybe a mentor is something to look into. 

[Guest Firefly]

That's definitely possible and not uncommon at all. Maybe a mentor is something to look into.

 

Mentor? What's the difference between that and a daddy/DD?

[Guest SoloFairy]

A mentor is different for each person (much like everything else lol) but for some a mentor can a platonic Dom or Daddy. They can help you grow and set boundaries. They can give rules and punishments. The relationship negotiations are up to you but there are many that do this. 

[Guest Firefly]

I see. Interesting. I'd never thought of it that way.

[Antoinette]

I currently have a mentor who acts as a daddy would with a little but we aren't romantic or sexual. He just gives me rules that I follow and I have a respect for him, somebody to keep me on track if you will. He is what I would refer to as a 'mentor', like someone said above - this is different for every person. 

[Guest Daddys_ace]

Sorry to jump into the convo... so, the mentor thing, how common is this? It almost seems like some magical unicorn that is amazing but hard to find. I would love to have something like this, I didn't know this was a thing.

[Guest Firefly]

I think you just have to find your right fit. I'm having trouble too so you aren't alone

[Guest Daddys_ace]

Sorry Firefly, hopefully you will find what you are looking for

[Guest Firefly]

You too! How are you by the way?