unofficial but in a ddlg relationship?

[Vivs.Yellow]

I'm a little and... well, I know this Daddy, but he's not mine. I want to be his little, he's said he likes me but he hasn't made a move. I'm really shy and don't know what steps to take to bring it up or ask... Another thing is , what are some signs he'll ask? He cuddles me and brushes my hair, when I do something he likes I get rewarded with face kisses...I just don't know what to do.He calls me little one, nugget,cub and princess along with a few other names... help? Edited November 18, 2016 by Vivs.Yellow

[lilsnoopy]

All of those things sound like moves..? He seems very interested! He's nicknamed you! and he rewards you, that sounds a lot like he treats you like his little. he might just be nervous or trying to not rush you so that's why he hasn't officially labeled anything (just a guess). You could always ask, or just wait for him. 

[Beasourous]

it does sounds like he is into you.. Most importantly is how long have you know him and how well do you know him? Don't get blindsided by all these lovely stuff without knowing him well.. Does he own a little now because your post title seems to point towards it?

[Vivs.Yellow]

it does sounds like he is into you.. Most importantly is how long have you know him and how well do you know him? Don't get blindsided by all these lovely stuff without knowing him well.. Does he own a little now because your post title seems to point towards it?

[Vivs.Yellow]

it does sounds like he is into you.. Most importantly is how long have you know him and how well do you know him? Don't get blindsided by all these lovely stuff without knowing him well.. Does he own a little now because your post title seems to point towards it?

[Vivs.Yellow]

it does sounds like he is into you.. Most importantly is how long have you know him and how well do you know him? Don't get blindsided by all these lovely stuff without knowing him well.. Does he own a little now because your post title seems to point towards it?

[Vivs.Yellow]

Beasourous Ive known him for about 5 months and know a lot about him. I know he's into this and doesnt have a little.... I just dont know how to bring up the subject.

[Vivs.Yellow]

Beasourous Ive known him for about 5 months and know a lot about him. I know he's into this and doesnt have a little.... I just dont know how to bring up the subject.

[Vivs.Yellow]

The guy I like is a Daddy, I'm a little. He nicknamed me and if I want something I gotta ask nicely. "Can I please play with your jacket zipper Daddy?" (If I say his name he says say it correctly. We cuddle and he likes to play games with me. Hes also super overprotective and gets onto me if Im not dressed right when going home. (If Ill be too hot/cold) We just haven't officially said anything yet. Caregivers and littles... are we in an unspoken ddlg relationship? Or will he ever ask...I don't wanna end up being a hurt used little.

[Guest PattyCake]

I wouldn't be as patient as you are lol.  I would say to him, "So, what are we?  Are you my Daddy now and I'm your little?" And see what he says.  Communication is key to any relationship

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I agree, you need to talk to him and ask him. It sounds very much like you're together. He calls you nicknames and you call him Daddy. Just find out what you are.

[ziva vlad's kitten]

Sounds like a relationship to me. Maybe he doesn't realize it's bothering you that it hasn't been officially acknowledged? My Owner needs me to be very upfront and direct sometimes, he doesn't understand it if I hint at something. Perhaps your daddy is the same? You two definitely need to have a talk about this

[Guest Princessaj]

In your every day conversation, when you bring up something you want to share maybe try...

"I am a member of a forum called www.ddlg.com Would you like to know more about it?"

 

I know you are a little and you are talking to a Daddy, you both know about DDlg, so the

following is not written like you don't know, just about "how" I am sharing....

 

Here is my experience, a bit different than yours, but still about communication...

I told my vanilla boyfriend about DDlg early in getting to know him and he acted silly, so I just stopped.

3 months later- This Wednesday, I brought up having friends on a forum/website. He sees me typing

to them all the time on my computer. I slowly started to share casually yet with a clear message.

 

Now he knows about me being a middle, what that means. Also, I have read some personal ads to him

so he can hear how members are looking for their partner, how they introduce themselves as a Daddy,

little, etc and what they want in a partner.

 

I am telling you all this as it is my experience in what it is like sharing my interest. I am not trying to make

him my Daddy, because I know he is Alpha, cares for me, loves me, waits on me hand and foot, that's fine.

Hugs.

[Beasourous]

you can straight outright and ask him "Am i officially your little baby/princess/ babygirl (whatever he calls you) now?

[Addraen]

Maybe just do something he will be proud of you for and when he goes to give you your face kisses as a reward, look him in the eye and ask him "Instead of face kisses this time, can you adopt me?" If my little asked me that, I know I'd look at her and tell her that she's making me melt, and then absolutely say yes. Now you're taking it into your own hands a little bit, not leaving the roles, and being so damn cute it hurts.  Good luck