Am I teasing him too much?

[HeCallsMeSweetGirl]

Im more of a sub than a little. In my relationship, we mix parts of bdsm, slave/master, and daddy/little girl. I have a bit of a force fantasy, and he does too. Recently, I've been saying "no" in bed. I don't actually mean it, I just like saying no and having him force himself on me. He likes it too, but I'm afraid I'm pushing it too much.

One time, I was playing with him and he got mad at me and we had to talk about it. We ended up making up.

Today, we were messing around and I started teasing and trying in little ways to move away from him. I felt like it was obvious that I was just playing, but he got annoyed and said "whatever" and started playing a video game...

I think he might think I actually don't want it even though I've explained that it's just my kink a bunch of times.

Am I being too much? Should I just be into it? I'm scared that I ruin sex for him

[ziva vlad's kitten]

My Owner and I had the same problem.

I had to learn how to not push too hard, and he learned how to be better at picking up when I was being playful.

It took some communication, some time, and some getting to know each other better.

 

One thing that made it a little simpler for us, is if I say "no" that's playful, and usually goes along with me fighting and losing, if you can call that losing lol. If I say "please stop" it's a genuine request.

[PrincessClara]

I'm sure you have established a safe word, maybe you can also establish a "no means no" word. Like if he starts coming onto you and you say "no" and are just being playful that's okay, but if you say "Elephant" or something then he knows you really mean no. 

[Guest SaladHater]

Maybe he just wants to feel like you actually want him sometimes? Instead of "forcing"himself onto you

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Here's the funny things I've learned about men, or at least my daddy....

 

Even if something is a turn on to them... they don't always want it done that way. Your daddy probably honestly feels like you don't want him because you're never coming onto him.