Definition of Being a Little..

[sweetlilcabbit23]

Well to be honest I am a complete noob when it comes to forums so more often than not my mind will draw a blank.

 

My question is this: what does it mean to be a Little? I believe there no right or wrong answer but I am wondering is there a guide line to it because I like wearing a collar with a little bell on it when I am around my Daddy. But that could be me who knows... Feel free to respond or no up to y'all.

[Guest LiddlePwincess]

You might want to consider looking into pet play/kitten play. I really like the whole collaring system they have.

 

As for what a little is I always look at it as someone who wants to relive their youth. That could be any age range below what they are and involve all kinds of fun times and different styles. You dont have to be head to toe in pastel pink. Thats just my opinion though and likely others will have different views which in essence is what DDLG is all about. Self expression.

[Antoinette]

There isn't a definition. 

 

If you identify with the label slap it on yourself, if you don't find a different one; it's as simple as that really. 

[Whatevenami]

I think I may be a little... my ex was a little so I assumed the cg role and I think it partially drove us apart because of the added stress, and jealousy. As time goes on though I feel more comfortable acting childish some might say. I have assumed so much responsibility throughout my life that we'll it's kind of snapped me a "little" bit, pun intended. I still feel an authoritative role but want to still be childish in a way. Help?

[Guest Princessaj]

Hi, I think life teaches us we better know who we are or someone is going to make us feel bad for not knowing.

Really?

DDlg takes that myth and puts it on its head.

DDlg, welcome, come on in, no matter who you are, what you believe in or how you want to be known, welcome.

 

Now for those people that really need to have structure I would suggest the following questions to study here on the forum.

1. What does a little do? There are so many interpretations about the activities one does in little space. Make a list of what you like, read to discover what others do in their little space. There are some classics that you will see that many littles like coloring, bubbles, hair styling, cooking, baking, chalk on the sidewalk, stuffies, crafts, dancing, cuddling...Take what you like or don't take anything at all. You are the only one you have to answer to. You may add things as you continue. They also do chores, special things for Daddy/Mommy/CG....explore being little.

 

2. What does a little look like? For each little they look like they look in real life, a unique individual, age, sex, height, body type, hair style, make-up, wardrobe, ethnicity, you name it, there will be a never ending way that a little can look. Choose what it is that you like to wear, style and look at what others are doing. There are tomboy, frilly, sexy, slutty, tailored, natural...littles. This is supposed to be fun. Take some chances and see what you think. Then guess what, you can change your mind whenever you want.

 

3.How does a little act? Some are soft and docile, bratty, bratty at times, compliant, obedient, submissive, independent, act in the style/behaviors of an age they want to feel. These are things that have been written and repeated in so many places.

Babygirl/Baby boy; birth to out of diapers

little: out of diapers to 12

middle: 13 to 18

Princess/Prince: I have not seen an age

Pet: I have not seen an age.

If you look up child development, what the child does at the age they are and match your preferred behavior you can make a decision or make no decision at all. There is no little police that will come and ask you for your little ID to see what age you are supposed to be. Isn't that great!

 

4. What do you do with your Daddy/Mommy/CG? The both of you get to decide and make an agreement as to what you are going to do. Will there be charts, discipline, spanking, rewards, chores, sexy time rituals, outings, sharing little space, what to do when they are away, these are the things/activities that go on or not go on. You can study to know what you like about these things-make a wish list, but when you meet your Daddy/Mommy/CG everything changes based on your relationship.

 

I wish you all the best in your adventure. DDlg is a chance in a lifetime. It is our secret that the vanilla world can only dream of. Make the most of being a little or whatever you want to be. Hugs.

[Guest softheartbruisedknees]

There's no wrong way to be a little! I wear a collar with a bell, too . I don't consider myself a pet; Collars are one of my kinks & I love the bell because it is a constant reminder of my submission to Daddy <3

 

I wrote about what being a little means to me personally on my tumblr. Here's the link if you want to read it  But remember, everyone is going to have a different answer because every little is unique 

Edited November 20, 2016 by softheartbruisedknees

[PrincessBunnyWigglebutt]

I wear a steel mesh necklace with a pendant.  Sometimes I am about 5, sometimes 10, sometimes 15.  I'm Daddy's Bunny, but I'm not a pet.  Others have told us that we aren't really DD/lg, more D/s, with me being a service sub. We don't care what they think.  Other people don't get a say in our relationship and what works for -=US=-.

 

In short, your definition is whatever you want it to be!

[Guest gemmy444]

I am new to ddlg but from what I have read and reasearched a little is someone who can tap into their inner child and not be afraid to let go and have fun with it.