Lost

[Guest DaddysPumpkin]

I had been a sub since my early 20s, but in my last relationship he introduced me to the DDlg lifestyle and now that we are no longer together I don't know what to do. Men don't want a little my age I find. But this is all I know now and don't really want to go back to the way things were. I experienced a lot of abuse in that world but I fear I will never find anyone into DDlg in the small town where I live. Edited November 15, 2016 by DaddysPumpkin

[Guest QueenJellybean]

This is a really scary, really real fear for a lot of Littles who are older. I'm really sorry your experiencing this. My Little and girlfriend is in her 30's, and I know that she sometimes felt similarly before we got together. (And probably still does.) What I can tell you, however, is to not stop looking and continue apologetically being yourself. While it probably seems like the majority of the world is looking for something other than what you're offering right now, it won't be true forever. There is someone out there for you, even though it doesn't feel like it. I don't know when your last relationship ended, but I'd take this time to get to know yourself again. Explore what you always loved about being a submissive and a Little. Reintroduce yourself to /you/. 

 

As for finding people locally, I'm not sure if you're a member of your local community, but I'd check to see if there's munches and events in your area. I know California has a really active scene. Maybe getting involved there without the intent to find a partner is just what you need to start feeling yourself again. <3 

[HeCallsMePrincess]

it certainly seems like most caregivers or daddies are looking for younger littles, so i understand the fear. especially as a little about to turn 31. you should always be who you are. some may not like it, but then they're not the one for you. 

[Guest Princessaj]

Ok, I am the next to the oldest middle on the forum at 51.

I live in Santa Monica, California

I am at peace that I am alone without a Daddy because I have a lot of work to do.

The more I learn about being a middle, the more I am sure that he is going to have to be one hell of a Daddy.

[Beasourous]

It may be true that alot of daddies prefer the younger girls to be their little ones. But that shouldnt stop you from being a little too.. Daddy should love you for who you are regardless of your age. When you are in the little world/ space, you are that age and not the real age (not sure if i make sense).

 

The most important thing is being comfortable and make friends without the intent of looking for a daddy. Have fun chatting with people and who knows the right guy might make the most awesome daddy to you. Even if you dont, you end up with awesome friends.

[kissingkitten]

I am and have been lil for a loooong time. Sometime wit a daddy n sometime witout a daddy. But i neber stop bein lil. I jus hide it from peoples. Dey jus tink im a happy enthusiastic person. If dey only knew. (Giggles) So jus be chu! Make online fwends and you nevers know wat happens. =^..^=