Holding onto things from the past

[Panserbjorn]

So is it weird to keep certain things an old little gave to you? I just found a not of apology I forgot I had in my wallet and I'm not ready to throw it. In fact seeing as this was my first ddlg relationship ship, I'm not sure I ever will be. I also have some oragami and stickers around my flat from her. Is it weird to not get rid of them?

[Guest lilglitterprincess]

I don't think that's weird

That relationship was a part of your life,so why to throw away stuff that remind you a nice part of your life?

[sensi808]

I have a picture my first little drew for me. It reminds me of the happiness I had, but at the same time it reminds me of the loss. I recently may have found a new little one of my very own, and am very torn about whether or not I should hold onto this art. I just don't think I'm ready to get rid of it, feels like it makes it so that relationship never happened. But at the same time, I feel like I can't be the best daddy for a new princess I can be if I'm holding onto to the past. I totally responded to try and offer some advice, but I realize that I myself could use some advice haha

[Guest dazeinahaze]

i would say keep it, its a part of you. the only time i would say toss it is if the picture becomes a problem with your new princess

[sephiroth]

I am quite new

but to me it seems really human thing

she was part of your 

my advice is
if you start a new relationship
maybe try to put in a box or a folder that way you can both look at when you getting nostalgic

but keep it clean enough to allow room for a new girl

[TurtleTheKittenTamer]

It's not weird.

I keep everything my ex ever gave me. 

[Baby_squirrel]

I was just asking for advice on this myself. I keep everything from ddlg friends I knew. Coloring pages, old rules etc. I think it's fine for you to keep it. It comes down to the question of if you want to reveal you still have the gift to your next little. It could cause some jealousy or bad feelings initially.

 

I personally would not hide it. Let your next little know you're sentimental about gifts and that you still have the note. Also, you will likely always keep something of her's close to you. I can't see anything wrong with a CG or little hanging onto a cherished and postive part of their past.