Just a question

[Lost_Wittle_Kitten]

Haz any of chu told chur parents dat chu ish into ddlg? I wuz considering telling dem but iz dont know

[lilsnoopy]

I personally don't because 1. he wouldn't understand and 2. it's not his business. There is always a risk telling people about dd/lg especially since dd/lg is part of bd/sm and it is misunderstood a lot. Telling your father you want to call a lover daddy might freak him out. But that's just me. 

[LolitasDaddy]

I don't see the benefit. Most parents will have trouble understanding, and it could certainly bring distance between you. Are your parents conservative? Do you typically share sexual stuff with them?

[PrettyLittlePrincessAlison]

I would never tell my parents that I am in to BDSM stuffs. But my little sister knows (she is in college) since she frequently stays with us for several days to weeks at a time. My father does know that i like kid stuff. Most of my presents from him have been Hello kitty things since he usually doesn't know what else to get me. But I simply don't tell him about sex stuff. If my mom was still alive, I doubt I would tell her either, even though she was my best friend. Thats just something I wouldn't talk to my parents about.

[Spooky]

I personally keep my private life, private. 

I don't feel the need to tell friends or family about what I am into.

[NyaaChan]

My mum knows about most of my weird stuff because that's just how we are, we have a super relaxed family life and we act more like best friends than roomates.

 

Personally I'm a Kitten though, so I mean, it's probably different with DDLG due to the Daddy aspect.

 

Even I don't go too in depth with her, it's more just "hey look at these super cute collars" or showing her cute kitty themed lingerie. We are just like that. She tells me her things, I tell her mine. We just talk like two normal people.

[ruthy0103]

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

My mother is my best friend and she doesn't know... and I don't plan to ever tell her. It's between me and my hubby/Daddy and no one else.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

My mother is literally my best friend. She had me young so we grew up more like sisters than mother and daughter. My mom knows I'm a sub and a little and thinks it's the coolest thing ever lol. She is extremely respectful of Dominus' house rules will often brag about how awesome her son in law is! she even calls her boyfriend "Daddy" but it's more to weird him out because it makes him incredibly uncomfortable.

 

She posts random pics of cuteness on my Facebook pretty often and is constantly sending me pics of random little stuff she finds when out shopping. I spare her the filthy stuff tho lol I don't think any mom wants to hear that shit haha

[Guest preciousbun]

Two of my closest friends know, both of them are involved in BDSM and were very non judgmental. Other than that, I wouldn't feel comfortable telling any family members. Some things are just private, you know?

[Pix]

I personally wouldn't tell my parents or family members. Unfortunately, I grew up in a rather judgmental family. Anytime I shared an interest of mine I got shot down, so I've learned to keep everything to myself. Why tell them something only to get hurt? If I told my parents I was into BDSM or ddlg, they'd tell the whole family, drive down to TN and haul me back up to their house and attempt to force me into counseling   I'm a grown adult and don't need their judgment or drama.

 

Although, one time my mom told me that my father is too salty  TMI!!

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

While I have very different views from most people about being open with your parents, most are going to just keep saying things like "why would you ever tell your parents about your sex life" etc. Honesty, if your into BDSM, and like being treated differently the mass of the population, I think you should tell them. I'm not saying talk to your parents about your sex life. But if you like to get hit, have bruises left, have rules to follow and other things people don't understand. It's important to let your parents know that you are ok, that you asked for it or like that kind of thing. I'm not saying go into detail. All I told my parents((back when they first found out I was having sex)) was that I liked it rough, that I liked getting bruised. I didn't want them to think that I was in an abusive relationship. If they said something about how they thought I was being treated, I'd say I'm weird like that or that it was in fact my idea. Your parents care and want you to be in a safe happy relationship. "Oh I'm into that kind of thing" can stop your parents from disliking someone who they think are treated you oddly because they don't understand. I'm not saying go into detail, I'm not saying to paint a colorful picture lol This is a life style and not just a sexual thing. You don't even how to actually use terms like BDSM or CGL. It would be as easy as, I'm into some weird stuff that you don't want to be asking about.((Which is basically just what I said to mine. From that point on whenever they'd ask about a bruise or a "weird" comment I could just say "You really don't want to know" and leave it at that)) However, if you don't have a very good relationship with your parents there is no point in even trying. They won't understand anyway...

Edited November 12, 2016 by CrazyLittleBuggaBoo

[Guest Wholockprincess23]

Only my best friend and a few other close friends know about my lifestyle. However, my little space isn't sexual and is a bit more easy to accept to anyone who doesn't know about it or understand it. My mom knows I'm a big kid. She's bought me coloring books, supports my star wars obsession, and has even been totally supportive of the sticker chart I have on my living room wall. She loves that it helps keep me motivated to take care of myself. However, she doesn't know the full extent of it as I don't think she'd fully understand my need to act like a 3 year old more often than my 25 year old self. I'm happy to have the acceptance I have, though. So I guess it just depends on the relationship you have with your parent(s).

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

Only my best friend and a few other close friends know about my lifestyle. However, my little space isn't sexual and is a bit more easy to accept to anyone who doesn't know about it or understand it. My mom knows I'm a big kid. She's bought me coloring books, supports my star wars obsession, and has even been totally supportive of the sticker chart I have on my living room wall. She loves that it helps keep me motivated to take care of myself. However, she doesn't know the full extent of it as I don't think she'd fully understand my need to act like a 3 year old more often than my 25 year old self. I'm happy to have the acceptance I have, though. So I guess it just depends on the relationship you have with your parent(s).

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