annlei Posted November 10, 2016 Report Posted November 10, 2016 Is it normal to get sad and cry when Daddy leaves to go to work...? I can't help it. I just feel like I can't function without him sometimes. sigh
Antoinette Posted November 10, 2016 Report Posted November 10, 2016 It's not unusual to be upset but probably crying is on the extreme side. It's also kinda unhealthy. Do you not have a job yourself (not trying to say you should) or hobbies, friends to hang out with when he goes? Perhaps you get upset because you've simply got nothing else to look forward to; which is quite unhealthy. 2
annlei Posted November 10, 2016 Author Report Posted November 10, 2016 It's not unusual to be upset but probably crying is on the extreme side. It's also kinda unhealthy. Do you not have a job yourself (not trying to say you should) or hobbies, friends to hang out with when he goes? Perhaps you get upset because you've simply got nothing else to look forward to; which is quite unhealthy. All I have right now is school which is pretty stressful at the moment because of midterms so.. And I find it hard to make friends mostly because I don't put myself out there or approach people first
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted November 10, 2016 Report Posted November 10, 2016 I have days when I get like this! It's not all the time but when I'm having a bad day I just can't stand to watch him leave in the morning. I get upset and throw a fit. Then I try to focus on housework but I end up getting everything done in an hour or 2 and have 6 hours to just stare at the TV and miss Dominus. It's balls! Hes my security blanket. 2
Guest Princessaj Posted November 11, 2016 Report Posted November 11, 2016 You have a lot of stress with your midterms and I think you should give yourself a little Grace. TRY THIS: Create things that keep you both connected. Things that you can see, smell, hear, taste, touch of him to keep you with him, when you are not. -Find an App to track tasks, chores, that your Daddy can also access and see what you are up to while gone. -Set goals and make the rewards special things about and with your Daddy. -Have you Daddy leave you voice mails that you save. He can tell you how much he cares for you and you listen to it over and over. He can assure you that you will do well on your exams.. -Record him reading you a story on your phone so you can watch it whenever you like. -Record on your phone him blowing kisses at you. -download Skype on your phone or use facetime to sneak a quick chance to talk and see each other. -claim one of his t-shirts he has worn and smells like him. Put it on when he is not there. Its like getting a hug. 5
CrazyLittleBuggaBoo Posted November 11, 2016 Report Posted November 11, 2016 It's normal to be upset and sad. Some people are just a little more sensitive than others. I have issues with separation anxiety. Some days its better than other days, but I understand that feeling of crying when left alone. The best thing to do, is to keep your mind busy. Which is, in fact, harder than said lol Find something to do, like house chores. Have your Daddy make you a list of chores to help keep your mind busy, and being a good girl. Ask and know what time his breaks are so you can call him or he can call/text you while on break, or even just on his lunch. Princessaj has listed some nice ideas. Recordings of voice. Stealing of shirts is always a nice one, you can cuddle, snuggle and wallow in it all day while he's gone. I always keep my binkie close at hand because it helps me with my anxiety issues, Mister Master also bought me my favorite one that I'm always using, so it's also kinda like a connection to him. If you have a blankie, stuffie or binkie that helps make you feel calm, safe or sound, try keeping it on hand. Try having your Daddy get you something like that, something special that already has a calming effete on you. That on top of being from your Daddy could be a big help. 1
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