Giving my little morning/night routines

[PaperSkyline]

Hey y'all, I'm in a LDR DDLG relationship and me and my little decided we should give her some routines to do maybe in the morning or night. I wanted some ideas or maybe what sorta routines you guys give/ do

Thanks.

[LoralieHaze]

What are things that she needs to accomplish after she wakes up and before she goes to bed, such as feed a pet? Are there any areas of self-care that she has been neglecting, such as hygiene or medication? Are there any things that aren't necessary but would please you if she were to do them, such as texting you good night and good morning? 

 

I'm sure someone will make a very long post giving you all kinds of ideas and basically tell you exactly what to do but that really won't help you in the long run. What will help you then and now is for you to come up with your own ideas together with your little and to have a discussion about what would work best for the both of you.

[Guest Nordy]

What are things that she needs to accomplish after she wakes up and before she goes to bed, such as feed a pet? Are there any areas of self-care that she has been neglecting, such as hygiene or medication? Are there any things that aren't necessary but would please you if she were to do them, such as texting you good night and good morning? 

 

I'm sure someone will make a very long post giving you all kinds of ideas and basically tell you exactly what to do but that really won't help you in the long run. What will help you then and now is for you to come up with your own ideas together with your little and to have a discussion about what would work best for the both of you.

^this! Talking and discussing with your little is (in my opinion) the most important part of being in a DDlg relationship! What does your little expect of you and your rules? How strict does she want you to be with her? How strict are you willing to agree to be?

 

You could do anything from agreeing to a rule where she flosses every morning (and/or night depending on how hectic her morning is). No one likes flossing, everyone needs it. Or you could simply make a rule of sending each other a voice clip saying good morning and wishing each other a good day (which is an amazing way to pick up your partner even if it isn't a rule, and takes a few seconds to do).

The lg is the one that (often. no offence meant, as I know littles are so much more!) colours, but you as a DD is the one that has to be creative in all kinds of different ways to keep your whimsical little attentive, happy, and content. If you feel overwhelmed, she probably has ideas, even if she might put up a fight to admit to them.

 

Agreeing on a rule is the only way to set a rule that you can enforce, unless you're in person. Long distance you have to accept (SOME) misbehaving in order to not end up giving empty threats and just sounding stupid as you have literally no way to give a severe punishment without ending up being abusive. It's easy to threaten with less face time, but that is in all honesty kinda abusive, and you'll be surprised how quickly your little wants to move on to a new Daddy when you use yourself as a punishment.

 

If you'd like more suggestions, or just to talk about how it's like to be a DD in a LDR, feel free to add me and PM me.