mut?

[ShyBBG4DD]

Yes, i know that word sounds degrading but it is not my intention. i was going to use the word hybrid but it states in the definition that it is of two breeds combined and i need an example of more than two.

 

My question is do any of Y/you feel like a mut? What i mean by this is that just recently i have acknowledged the BBG side of me because i didn't comprehend that what i was "into" or how i felt, or what i needed had a name. i started out in the lifestyle as a Switch before i knew more about myself. During the past 4yrs. i have evolved and found more things out about myself. 

My last Dom before He poofed gave me the label of sublavera, which is sub and slave combined. Yes it is unique and not in the BDSM dictionary. 

 

Soooo, when someone asks Y/you what Y/your status is what do Y/you say? i tend to blink and stall at first because it would look more like: sub/bbg/brat/kitten/slave

 

i am an empath by the way and i tend to feel things and see things kiiiiiiiiiiinda deep. So all of those mean something special to me because all of them is apart of me. 

 

Just a thought...

 

Huggles

ShyBBG4DD

[Guest]

I guess I'd go by a little/ middle /switch/ kitten. Woo what a mouth full.

[Tasha-Pasha]

I totally feel where you are coming from! That doesn't even include how I define myself outside of the bdsm community. I am so new to this and figuring out where i fit and what the right label is for me. Heck, I'm still figuring out my little age range!

Ultimately i feel like these labels are just generalizations. Just really big boxes that we put ourselves in so other ppl know how to interact with us from a glance on how we self identify.

IMO the only person who is going to care that I am a sub/little/bbg/brat/imp/dinosaur/human with a million other defining factors will be my SO. Otherwise I'm just a friendly bratty little that likes to act up in chat and make ppl laugh...

No idea if that helped or if I am just rambling on to myself!

[ShyBBG4DD]

lol Tasha,Arya

    yes your post made since and ty Arya, totally feel that way! mouthful indeed! i do understand it is a label that is general. It makes since to have a bit of an idea of where Y/you are at to direct people like minded towards Y/you. thanks!

 

Huggles

ShyBBG4DD

[stargirl]

OMG I'm an empath, too! Hai!

 

No one really fits neatly into any label, and they are just there as a very general guide. You can identify with one label or many, and as you've discovered, that will change as you learn about yourself and evolve as a person. Call yourself whatever you like or think is cute? Makeup your own label if you want, ultimately it's how you perceive and define yourself that truly matters.

Edited November 8, 2016 by stargirl