Long Distance Relationship

[babygirlforlife1991]

I am in long distance relationship and it feels like one-sided relationship because it feel like he doesn't even try. Just a man who is horny and I am giving him benefit of the doubt because he my first daddy ever!

 

HELP ME!

[lilsnoopy]

Those are all things that point to a guy being a fake daddy. Don't give him that benefit, just because he is your first daddy doesn't mean he should be able to take advantage of you. 

[stargirl]

I felt like this too! I voiced my opinions, discussed different options, made suggestions, but ultimately it was up to him to make the effort. I ended things with him today, and we are still friends. Don't compromise or settle for anything less than a healthy, loving relationship

 

 

Don't stay with him just cause you want a Daddy. There are plenty real ones who will care for you, baby girl 

Edited November 7, 2016 by stargirl

[studman9400]

As a daddy, I can tell you if it is one sided on yoru end, he is not a daddy, but someone who wants to take advantage of your little self. A daddy should make you feel happy and cared for and that he is there for you when YOU need him. There are plenty of good daddys who will take the time to know you and always be there for you.

[Guest BWR46]

If it is a one sided relationship and your daddy is just horny and that's it, he is a fake daddy. He should give you care, guidance, and so much more. Like the others have said, do NOT give him the benefit of the doubt and go along with it because he is your first daddy. A lot of fake daddy's will do the minimum to make a little feel like they have a good daddy just for the sexual side of things. He needs to be your daddy 24/7. Not just when it suites him or when he is horny.

You might want to look into more about what daddy's do for their littles outside of the sexual aspect and see if he is doing caregiver things for you.

[Guest Maru]

I don't like telling people what to do, but you really sound like you need to not talk to him. He doesn't seem good to you. You deserve a better daddy than that, someone that takes care of you and cares.

[Beasourous]

If he doesn't even try to do anything else than wanting you when he is horny then he really seems like a fake daddy. Like the others mentioned, there are more than the sexual aspect in the DDLG and it seems like he is just interested in that...

 

Don't stay on just because he is your first daddy..

[MoDaddy]

Not much to add to what has already been said. Seems to me tho he is a fake. I'd suggest just asking yourself if your truly happy in your current situation? If not, then you'll have to take action to make it better. This may include moving on and finding a Daddy that fits your needs better. After all, you need to match up in all aspects of the relationship for it to work. 

 

I hope you get this figured out soon! Best Wishes!

[Guest PokéRob]

me and my princess  are LDR  But  i take  being a Daddy Serious Cause its like any other relationship if you truly  Love your partner  your Gonna Wanna be there  try and Make the relationship  Blossom Not just make the Relationship Based on Sex or  for filling there Needs you seem  intelligent Explain  To Him What Do you  want and what  he's  doing that's affecting you  Cause that isnt healthy  in  any relationship for things to be  one sided   

Edited December 19, 2016 by PokéRob

[Guest TwitchyDaddy]

I think this is really sad. I am just getting told some home truths by Princess Chill in another thread, and I suspect she would view me in the same way as your Daddie. But for what it's worth, no don't be a plaything for someone who just wants you for his benefit only.

[Guest lgongl]

im a new daddy, well single daddy and will probably become a ldr daddy at first and i have thought about the prospects of just being sexually attracted and nothing more and the complications of that. i would love to have a deep emotional connection with a little than be strictly sexually attracted. i dont think it would be fair to the little, especially if their needs were not being met. just my two cents

[Guest Waiting4us]

If you are not given importance and it is only about sexual talks know it is a red flag

No matter if he is your first, indeed he in my eyes is not at all a Daddy. Daddy cares for feelings and it is more then about sexual things.

I would like to say please reconsider your decision of staying back. You deserve love and respect. If both are missing you better move on.

[DaddyPlaysGuitar]

(All of these from the point of view of a Long Distance Relationship) Im not sure if this happens to every Dd, but there are points where we, indeed, are horny, and want to spend some time with our little, but I feel thats the point where you can realize if he is really a Dd. I have put aside my horniness many times because my little needed attention, affection, more than sexy time. Is that action of priorizing the little's needs over the daddy's that makes a good Dd, Im my honest oppinion. 

If you havent already considered ditching the guy, I would highly recommended reconsidering it and looking around some more, there are lots of Dd's out there looking for a long-term, thats for sure.

[Guest uk_caring_daddy]

You could try to write down what a daddy is to you. That's the most important thing here.

 

I suspect you want your daddy to make you feel that you are special. Maybe to make you feel looked after. To make you feel he is trying very hard for you. It doesn't seem like he is doing those things.

 

In my view, how he makes you feel is not something you should work on trying to *tolerate*.

How he makes you feel is supposed to be the good bit! The bit that the whole relationship is for!

 

For whatever reason, he seems to be falling short of what you need.

If so, either get him to up his game or look for someone else. 

The care he gives or dominance he shows are still your gifts to give him permission to do. You can take them away; that is your choice.

Edited December 28, 2016 by uk_caring_daddy

[Daddy'sLittleKitty246]

My very first Daddy was aldr daddy and after I explained to him I wasn't a very sexual little, he was manipulative.  He told me he was going to end his life if i didn't do this or do that and if i didn't send pictures he'd leave, and at the time i was more scared of him leaving then of my own worth and what my limits were. I ended things and got very happy. it was hard for me to find a daddy who didn't do things like that. If you feel if as though its a one sided relationship and he's using you odds are if you follow your gut you will be much happier. Thats my two cents in this

[Guest Kali]

ugghhh. That sounds so manipulative; I'm sorry you were put through that. It is a sad fact that there are those who intentionally set out to get their jollies at someone else's expense. There are also those who are pathologically manipulative and don't even have to make any particular effort to be so.

 

It's very important to ask each other for a clear description of what you are looking for, your limits, expected availability and committment etc. before you even think of calling each other Daddy/little. One sided relationships are toxic and you must never hesitate to exit the relationship if the other party is evasive about discussing any issues you might have. Threatening self harm to get their way is a red flag.

 

I really hope you find the right Daddy for you and don't let the experience put you off following your dreams.