Daddy is always busy!

[bubble-butt-baby]

Hey everyone!

I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice. I'm a very needy little and when Daddy is busy or away ( which is often) I feel so down! i feel like I am being neglected which isn't the case because my daddy tells me he loves me very much and spends his free time with me. It just doesn't feel like a lot. I was wondering if any of you can relate because I feel like I am just being silly. Also does anyone have any advice on how to stop feeling like this or alternatively what I can do to distract myself whilst Daddy is busy. 

Thankyouuuu! 

[Guest OverDaddy'sKnee]

Hi! Welcome to the forum. You'll likely get a lot of very helpful replies about your situation. My suggestion would be to just make more friends who are in the lifestyle. That way, you'll have someone to talk to when your Daddy is away. I think that having another friend who is a little would be great (if you don't have one already). That's just my two cents. I hope this helps.

[Guest LiddlePwincess]

Does your Daddy spend as much time with you as he can? If so then what you have to ask yourself is, is it enough for you right now? If it isnt then the only thing I can suggest is that maybe the relationship isnt right for you. Its rather dramatic I know but if your a needy little and try as he might your Daddy just doesnt have the time you require then its best to deal with it now before feelings continue to evolve.

 

I can be needy myself but if my Daddy didnt have the time for me I would be understanding. Im not trying to make you feel bad or say that you are in anyway wrong. You have a right to need more than what your Daddy can offer. Its perfectly fine. If you step back and say, I know his time is limited but overall its worth it then thats great but you have to fully commit to that. You cant say its fine today and complain again tomorrow. Its just going around the same cycle if you do. Im sure your Daddy loves you and is giving you all the time he can, just remember that when your feeling down about not seeing/speaking to him as often as you would like.

 

Im sure you have lots of fun hobbies you could do while you are waiting for him. I like to set myself goals to do each day. It gives me something to focus on so perhaps that could help with you. Just silly things like, wash all my towels or sort through my makeup. Then when you do speak you can tell him what you have done and he can praise you for it!

 

You have to not only be honest with your Daddy but yourself. Saying you are ok with something you are not will only cause harm further down the line. Take some time to think about what you want and speak to your Daddy about it as well. I wish you all the best though <3

[Antoinette]

I think rather than dramatic responses it's just a case of boredom. As 'OverDaddy'sKnee' stated you should see if you could find some little friends, and well... You're in the perfect place to find them! If you're happy in the relationship I wouldn't end it, don't let go of a good thing due to circumstances that could change in the future anyway.

 

Have a more fulfilling life in other ways, spend your free time away from your daddy being productive - sports, reading, video games, working out, etc. those are just a few of the things I do, so you don't have to do exactly that but find ways to keep busy! And then you'll have to look forward to telling Daddy alllll about it

[bubble-butt-baby]

Thank you everyone! 

I half expected nobody to respond to me. I do try to talk to daddy about it but I don't want to make him feel bad because he can't help that he doesn't have much free time. Of course I do understand that he has things to do, it's just difficult especially when I am deep in little space and want someone to take care of me. I do love him very much and would not want to throw our relationship away over something silly. I think I will definitely try to make some little friends and take up some new hobbies. Thanks again for your help     

[Guest Quartz]

I'm having the exact problem right now. I looked for little friends and honestly it's made it much easier for me to pass the day without getting upset that daddy isn't texting me.

[Johnny Hammersticks]

You could try finding a babysitter? Little brother/sister? Or mommy? Meeting his approval, of course.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I agree finding little friends would help. I am very needy as well, although I don't require my Daddy to take care of me much (I would say I range in age from 7-12 when in little space... so I can be pretty independent mostly). I still don't like to be without him, though.

[Guest Princessaj]

I believe my Daddy, if he chooses, wants to help me  be the best I can be.

 

You say you are bored without your Daddy being with you.

 

If I am bored,

my Daddy may choose

to help me find things that will help me be the best I can be when I am on my own..

 

Idea! My Daddy thinks that I can be more socially responsible.

 

My Daddy finds opportunities and arranges for me to volunteer helping distribute food at a Food Pantry.

 

Idea! My Daddy thinks that I could learn to be more compassionate.

 

My Daddy finds a animal shelter and arranges for me to spend time with abandoned animals.

 

I encourage littles to approach their Daddy to discuss what he wants you to do when you are apart.

Daddies, please consider preparing things for your little to do when you are apart that will help them be their best.

You both will grow in the discussion together as a couple, in his care for you and your love for him.