Nobody talks wif me on here :c

[little butterfly]

I know I'm new to this site, but nobody every wants to talk wif me..

Did I do something wrong?

Am I being judged for being a little?

I feel sad, like I shouldn't of come out as a little on here.. :c

I thought this site would make me feel comfortable and happy about being a little..

[PapaMax]

Looking on your profile feed, seems people are replying to your posts, I think you're doing just fine   

[Guest ~*QueenSaiya*~]

I'm sure people will talk to you if you make the effort to talk to them! Why not try reaching out to people first or replying to a few personals of littles looking for friends?

[lilsnoopy]

honestly this is like the most open place to come out as a little....This is literally a caregiver/little community.  Maybe spend some time in the chat section, as long as you contribute to the conversation people should respond and talk to you. Nolana also had really good advice

 

But to be kind of blunt.. if you aren't happy on the website and it makes you upset then maybe take a break from the forum and try again later. I love being on the forum because I can get and give advice as well as learn others perspectives. Being a part of this forum makes me happy but if it makes you sad then it maybe isn't for you. And that's ok. Every little is different and you're still a valid little. 

Edited November 6, 2016 by lilsnoopy

[Guest Cloud9Dreamer]

trust me, I felt the same when i joined only a few weeks ago, but after some time, i've made some good friends that talk to me, and i met my first daddy! i'm always open to talk if you wanna go on and on about movies or cartoons or whatever! i'm here for ya, sister!

[Guest LicklePrincess]

Your insinuation that people are judging you for being a little is honestly quite dumbfounding. Being a little or caregiver is one of the main aspects of this site. People are so warm and nonjudgmental of each other on this site. We have members from every walk and side of this wonderful community and each person is welcomed and cherished without being judged for who they are or what they identify as.

 

This site is exactly what you make of it. People are incredibly warm and welcoming but that said aren't going to run after you to speak with you if you don't engage them. As they say "you get what you give" reach out and speak to people, come into chat and chat and get involved in the posts. Once you interact people interact back.