Punishment Problems!

[disneyings]

hello. i am very much new to this website, but i had a couple of concerns regarding my current living status with my daddy and of course how we could dish out punishments without i always being spankings.

 

i live in Kentucky, while my daddy lives in Virginia. i plan to move out to him for schooling and well.. for him! however, i'm a HUGE brat about a lot of things and i don't listen a lot of times due to me not used to having a daddy or having rules set for me.

 

well, when he wants to punish me, it's usually spankings with a hairbrush (i do them myself, not fun.), but he's only dished out one punishment that's different from that. i had to sit in the corner for five minutes and thinkabout what i'd done.

 

i'm having a hard time suggesting other punishments because i don't want him to feel like i don't want to do them. i just prefer not spanking myself every time i do something wrong.

 

what are good punishments for a long distance DD/LG relationship? and how can i go about telling him without getting shy or losing my voice?

[Guest DDSagittarius]

That depends on what you're defining as punishment. Is this a "punishment" which is mean to be enjoyed by you, but in the form of a punishment. (Spanking for example is seen as a punishment, but for many it's something they enjoy)

 

If it is there to truly make you learn to behave or listen and do as you're told, I like to issue time outs. Especially in long distance relationships it's something I have control over, without needing to be there.

So I would say, 30 minute time out, and then until 30 minutes had passed (or less if I was feeling kind) I'd not respond to them.

Might seem harsh to some, but if it's a genuine punishment for misbehavior it's very effective.

If you're looking for something more as a fun punishment though, then there are so many options out there, depending on your kinks and what you respond to.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Things I have read on here are time outs, writing lines, earlier bed times (assuming you have one), getting privledges taken away. My Daddy and I are married and live together. Most effective for me tends to be spankings and when we are out and about he will pinch my inner thigh. Yesterday though I was being bratty and he told me to go punish myself and I told him no, he was at work at the time. He said a few words which have always bothered me even as a child "I'm disappointed in you that you don't obey Daddy when he isn't home." Not only did I go and do the punishment but I thought about it the rest of the day.

[Guest SoloFairy]

Punishments aren't meant to be fun. If you don't like spanking (yourself or later him) then I think that'd be a great punishment for you. There are, of course, tons of other punishments and you can let him know that you're open to other ideas but ultimately it's his call on what you deserve punishment wise. 

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Loss of privilege, writin lines, grounded from social media/computer etc, high protocol, corner time (which he can watch on Skype to make sure you do it).

[PrettyLittlePrincessAlison]

Our "punishment process" is a verbal warning, then writing lines (usually having to do with the rule i broke such as writing "I will not talk back to Daddy 15 times), time outs (first being 5, then 10, then 15), grounding, and then my sleeping on the floor. My Daddy and I do live together but those could all be easily modified for a LDR.