Super sucky. <rant!>

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

My Daddy and I are in a LDR but have met three times irl, I only recently returned from seeing him a month ago where he took care of me for the summer but I realized since being back that I'm super sad most of the time. Partly from the fact I was used to that life and came back to a not-so-great one.

 

There are a handful of issues I am dealing with, medical ones having to do with a cyst in my brain that my family and I are trying to get removed as well as the mental ones that help nag at me daily. And natually, the perks of adult life.

 

I do feel like it wouldn't be so bad if I had more support in my life but once things started to get bad for me in HS I sort of lost all my friends and besides my mother and Daddy, I have no other support and those two can't, won't, and aren't always there for me (even if they want to be).

 

I feel stuck and sucky and I'm unsure of how to handle it most of the time. It feels awful being lonely as all get out, even when you're not sad.

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

*BIG HUGS*

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

I understand! Me and my boyfriend are in the same boat. Once visit time came and left, I was pretty useless for a while. My depression hit me hard this week (see "Taking Time Off In A Relationship - Ramblings Of A Kitten"). One of the things people suggested doing was art. It seems like a wonderful idea. 

[Saya99]

I feel the exact same ldr relationship need patience :'(

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

I truly do appreciate the responses. 

 

@crazy - thanks for the hugs!!!

 

@strawberry - yeah, sadly. that's how i was as well. the next week i was just useless and existed day to day without much effort. just did what i had to do. it wasn't until we randomly came up with the idea that i come stay with him for almost two weeks that i got better. and by the time a got home after that, a very short time later we had the crazy idea for me to spend the summer there. and now i'm here! now we're talking about a little more permanent fix, just a little difficult with my headache issues. whats helped me the most is that every day, after he gets home from work, we usually set up for vcing and gaming for a few hours before bed - on the weekends it's usually a little different but we spend a lot of time 'together' and its helped more than anything else has, tbh.

 

@saya - they do! they require so much patience and understanding, flexibility but in the end it truly feels worth it. not a lot of people can live with a LDR and it feels really special that we're able to!

Edited November 8, 2016 by TinyPengu