EdgeOfReality Posted November 4, 2016 Report Posted November 4, 2016 Hello all, I'm a daddy from Georgia, and I need some help or advice or anything at this point. Thank you in advance for your help. Let me explain: Me and my girlfriend/little have been dating for 7 months now. We don't live together, and we both work, so we can't see each other as much as we'd like, but we still have a few days a week together. We fight sometimes, as all couples do, but overall we are very happy together. Now let me explain the problem. We RARELY get any alone time, and even less daddy/little time.. To be specific, 1 day a MONTH if we're lucky. This is a problem that her and I have discussed many times, but nothing ever changes. We both still live with our parents for now, (We're both 20), and doing anything at home has been limited to when parents are away. I've suggested going out and doing things, like having her use her pacifier in the car, wearing a diaper out, etc, but she is scared to do that as she has anxiety and is afraid someone will find out. (She is very self-conscious). I love being in this relationship, and I love her very much, I just need time to be a daddy to my little. There is nothing I love more than taking care of her when she is in little mode. At first, not having much time for it was ok, I guess because we were growing into it, but weeks became months and for the past month i've been very depressed about it. I know that probably sounds stupid, but being a daddy is a big deal to me, and I absolutely love the dynamic of it and the fact that I was lucky enough to find a girl who loves it too and loves me. I thank you taking the time to read this and any advice or help is very much appreciated.
aj_21 Posted November 4, 2016 Report Posted November 4, 2016 (edited) Maybe something you can try is an app called "our home" You both have access to it and can see whats going on. There is the "parent" and "child" account. You set tasks and rewards as can she. Its not a big thing but it may help you feel a bit more like her daddy if the can set tasks and rules and see them being done in real time. What you have said completely makes sense and yeah its hard when you dont get time to be together in your dynamic. Maybe when you guys talk about how you want to do it more you should come up with ways on how to do it and set goals and things so it gets done....if that makes sense. All the best with it!! Edited November 4, 2016 by aj_21 2
LolitasDaddy Posted November 4, 2016 Report Posted November 4, 2016 Spring for a hotel at least one night a month where you can be yourselves for the night. That way things can be explored without the extra worry of prying eyes. 1
DaddysLolita Posted November 5, 2016 Report Posted November 5, 2016 I can totally see why using a paci or wearing a diaper in public is not her thing. There may be more ways to consider. What kinds of activities does she like when little? What makes you feel the most like Daddy? There are apps you can use, you could give her tasks and rewards for completion, you can share in games on phones or tablets, do you have rules? Thats a good way to connect. Share something special...for example my Daddy and I share snackies time. You can use skype...these days there's really no excuse or reason not to be able to connect. It sounds like you need to have a serious discussion with her as adults as well. If you've talked about this a few times and nothing has changed..then you have to consider if it's wanted to be changed. I'm sorry if that sounds harsh but where there's a will there's a way. Good luck! 2
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