Question For The Littles

[TattooedDaddyCali]

Okay i came here to join this amazing community but i have a few questions. Whats the best way to catch a littles attention? How do I break the Ice? What are the exactly attracted too? Am i attractive enough to do this?

[StorytimeDD]

Littles are attracted to strength. Not necessarily physical strength (though that helps so you can pick up them and that makes some smaller too) but strength of character, moral strength, convictions and willpower. That is first and foremost what littles see and react to. If you don't believe in yourself, it'll be that much harder to believe in them and to support them and to be strong for them.

But that's just ice breaker stuff, the nurturing and gentle care needs to also be there but that is more maintenance stuff than ice breaker.

[HeCallsMePrincess]

how about you just be yourself? don't be a creep, be polite, make conversation. 

[TattooedDaddyCali]

i like the feed back i appreciate it! 

[stargirl]

Let all the good in your personality shine through

 

 

Also, don't start calling littles pet names unless they say it's okay. General good manners and a genuine interest in the other person goes a long way.

 

 

Read through the the various forum posts, you will get the gist. Good luck!

Edited November 2, 2016 by stargirl

[Trash Queen]

Get an idea of the type of little you want and start from there. Then you can browse profiles and send friend requests to the ones you're interested in. Just being around the forums casually can help get an idea of the type of people available.

 

It's hard to say what is needed to catch a little's attention because it varies so much. Just be whoever you are and someone will gravitate towards you. 

[TattooedDaddyCali]

well seems like a lot of littles and middles already have daddies but ill keep all these suggestions in mind i appreciate it! thanks a lot

[stargirl]

It helps if you approach littles with friendship as your end goal, vs a romantic relationship.

[Littlest_Lushie]

So, best tips for ya: start slow, friendship and then relationship will have a stronger foundation. Also, get to know eachother on a level besides on the ddlg level- because sometimes you aren't always Daddy/Little. You need to have a strong base- as you both are, at the core. 

 

Littles like maturity, patience, and understanding in my opinion and from what I have seen. Attractiveness has nothing to do with it, its about what you have inside. I could sit here and tell you that you're hot- but it won't matter. Confidence is also important, you don't need a group of strangers on a forum to boost your ego about your appearance. Everyone has different preferences- I have no doubt that you are someones preference. I'm sorry if that came across as rude- but regardless of if we think you're attractive, its about the littles you meet that matter.

 

Case in point: be yourself. Also, see what types of littles there are: brat, princess, etc. Then their are the age groups/ages. Do you like diapers, paci's, stuffies? Or do you like more grown up painting their nails and helping them with homework? Once you figure out what you like, then you can seek that out in others!

 

Feel free to message me or go on chat if you have any questions! 

 

P.S. Anyone can do this! Literally anyone that identifies as one of the roles in a ddl/lg dynamic can do this successfully and find happiness within themselves and with potential partners!

Edited November 2, 2016 by Littlest_Lushie

[TattooedDaddyCali]

Not really into the diaper paci things more like a middle tween type stuff painting nails brushing hair going to mall kind of things and thanks for your honest feedback it means a lot i appreciate it i just want to know what  girl like this is looking for to help me better understand what i can do to satisfy the situation

[LoralieHaze]

Not every middle or nymphet likes the same things so it's pretty much pointless to worry about that, especially at this stage. You don't need to find out what they're all looking for and then tailor yourself to that. You need to be yourself and find someone who is looking for the qualities that you already possess. I know you said in your intro post that you're not new to this, but it sounds to me like you are.

 

I think you're too caught up in the idea of what a certain type of person likes and by doing so you're forgetting that they're people, first and foremost. Littles are adults, and the type you're looking for (heterosexual middles) are adult women who are sexually attracted to men. Just because we're all into DDlg that doesn't mean that you can take the same exact approach with all of us or that that approach needs to be drastically different than the way that you would approach women in more vanilla circumstances. To echo the sentiments of Stargirl and Littlest Lushie, every DDlg relationship needs to be based on a strong friendship. If you want to find a romantic partner here, you should first be focused on building friendships. Once you find someone who you feel a strong friendly bond with, then and only then should you be asking what she's attracted to and how you can "satisfy the situation".

[Guest foxylady]

I agreed with daddy's princess. Be yourself n show u have a daddy personalities .make sure u not call urself daddy to her at firstcause she probably not comfortable bout it.

And try make a convo to get to know her without make any pressure or bunches of sex questions stuff at first convo. Cause thats kind of turned off for some littles since we are here want to find a daddy who we can feel safe n taken care n get all attention n time from our daddy so show them u have those n honesty.

Edited November 3, 2016 by foxylady

[Guest Princessaj]

Lucky you, everything you want to know is here in the forum.

 

Daddy Doms and littles have been writing their hearts out asking

for what they want and what they need.

 

Smart, you posted your question in little space. I suggest that you

spend a lot/tons of time reading the postings there. I have read

almost 50% or the forum and it has taught me a lot.

 

I believe that the littles/middles are very transparent and say exactly

what they want and who they are. They speak their mind with opinion,

experience and emotion. You will find patterns and reoccurring topics.

They express their fears, dreams and little space things. It will all roll

out for you if you deliberately focus on what you say you want to learn.

 

As for your questions...

 

Whats the best way to catch a littles attention?

 

One Part little: Find the inner little in yourself. They like for their Daddy to color along with

them and sing Disney songs too. They don't want a Dom all the time. Know what it is they are

into by name and description. What is their favorite stuffies name? Speak their language. Even

if you think its silly, you want a little, they can be silly. They want you to be on their level and be

yourself.

 

One Part Daddy Dom. They also want a Daddy Dom that is confident in his abilities to protect,

care, comfort, provide guide and discipline them. Study what it is that they think a Daddy Dom

just magically knows how to do. Some Daddy Dom's have real down to their soul ways that is

natural for them to help pick out their little clothes, brush their hair, make sure they eat....focus

on what it is they expect, what they wish they had right now. Read the status updates all day

long and you will see the begs and cries for what they want from a Daddy Dom.

 

How do I break the Ice?

 

Talk to them about little space. Know what they do in little space.

Really know, not just posing, they will figure it out.

 

Also, read lots of profiles to see the common things that they are

into in real life. I see all the time, video games by name and what

platform. Music by band names. If they are into food, learn enough

to talk about it. Anime is a huge area of interest. Love animals.

Lots of them are going to university. Learn to like talking about

their classes and their study.

 

If you try to know and can carry on an open ended conversation

that you are willing to learn, you may be surprised by how far you

can go.

 

What are they exactly attracted too?

 

A Daddy Dom that knows why he is a Daddy Dom. The confidence

that comes with being able to discipline and cuddle. Read the

Caregiver Cafe with as much interest as the little space section.

 

The Daddy Dom actually has to be fluent in his responsibilities

to a little, they expect that. Even if you are new, you can show that

you are learning about what they want. Learning how to make your

first bubble bath can be a lot of fun for both of you. Be active in

your pursuit of information. The little knows what makes them feel

protected, cared for. They expect a Daddy Dom to know what to

do to give them that and more.

 

Am i attractive enough to do this?

 

Are you an attractive Daddy Dom with

-his knowledge of DDlg,

-gives a little what she wants and

-knows how to provide it as only he does?

 

Not yet,

 

You can grow to learn how to be and add your own version of

things as you go. Its a whole package.

 

Don't forget, DDlg'rs are adult humans, you still will think of what

makes you have chemistry about real world things. Not everyone

lives DDlg 24/7, so you have to factor in what you will be doing

with each other when she is not in little space.

 

Successful relationship in real life + a well advised DDlg Lifestyle makes for happy couples.

 

I hope I helped in making your dream more available. Ask me anything if you like.

[Guest PrincessCakes]

The best thing to do is to just be yourself and to be kind and gentle to the littles. Lots of littles are sensitive so it's important to be polite and to go about it slow.

[TattooedDaddyCali]

Love the feedback and no im not new to the type of that this carries but i am new to the community in itself if that makes any sense at all i still very much appreciate everything im sorry i come off sorry new or lame those werent my intentions at all

[LittleHaylee]

Most little's, like myself, take comfort in knowing that we can trust and rely on our Daddy to take care of us and provide for us in any situation. If you can do this... then you immediately become more attractive to little's who are seeking a Daddy, if you can be caring, but dominant, you will get a lot of attraction from little's, physical appearance applies to little's, but not as much as you think, personality is the most important thing of all, if you are good looking but a meanie poo, then your not as attractive, but say you aren't as high on appearance, but have an amazing and loveable personality then little's, would most likely choose you. <3

 

If you have any other questions, that you think I could help you with, feel free to message me <3

[Beasourous]

Just being yourself and be sincere in knowing the littles. Like most of them said, be a friend first and see if the chemistry clicks and you can go from there. Most of the time, we make friends in the chat and some things move on from there. 

 

If you are looking for a little girl, there is always the personal forum where you can look.  

[SassyAssyBrat]

We are all different, and like others have said you has to be you. Step out there and talks to them and be friends and maybe it will lead to more. I hopes you find your perfect princess or beautiful brat <3

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

Don't try to be something you think someone wants, just be yourself