Littles with kids

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

So do any other littles have kids? Do you find it makes it harder or easier to be a little? Sometimes it's easier for me because I can look at cute things and people assume it's for my kids... but sometimes I don't wanna share and I kinda wanna pout when I have to, because my kids always come first.

 

Like one time we were at a carnival and I pointed at a rainbow penguin to Daddy and told him I wanted it. He spent $10 winning it for me then my youngest (she's 2) told me it was her bird please. I went to give it to her but Daddy gave our son (almost 7) money to go win his sister one and he won her one and himself a ball so I gotta keep my penguin. I was sooo happy.

[Princess Domme]

im so happy for you just reading this.. lol

[Tasha-Pasha]

I know what you mean! I love my son and he comes first in my life. I do find it hard to find time for myself though.

I am a single mom, I work full time, I go to school part time, and I volunteer one evening a week. In between all of that I try to fit time in for me to explore being little. Most of my little time is spent here in chat or colouring and watching netflix after my little guy has gone to bed.

Don't even get me started on trying to find time to date! Maybe that will happen when my son leaves home for college or university in 10 years!

[IchigoHime]

I find it really difficult to have little time with a child in the house. My little time keeps me from getting too depressed so its become a bit of a necessity but having a 4 year running around makes things hard. It does make it less awkward when buying cute toys and stuff, but other than that I struggle with it daily. I even get a bit jealous when Daddy pays attention to my daughter. (I love that he does cause she deserves someone in her life that will, and she likes him but he's mine!)

[NinerKitty]

It's definitely harder to make time for yourself when you have a kid/kids. When I don't have my son I usually take advantage of the time to get grown up things done like cleaning, organizing, and homework (I'm in college)

 

So I find myself only going into little space when I'm talking to my papi (daddy) on the phone.

[Guest SoloFairy]

I have 3 kidlets. The yougest being 4. I'm a single mom (Daddy is long distance for now) Of course i have the responsibility of feeding them, setting rules, cleaning and so on which isnt very fun as a little lol

 

However a lot of the time i find it very easy to get lost in the things they do. We watch movies together and listen to fun music. Chicken nuggets for dinner isnt unheard of. It definitely makes me the cool mom LOL

 

My 4 year old and i this convo the

other day:

 

Me: wanna watch Frozen??

4: Noooooo! Lets watch Cops the Bunny

Me: uugghhh lets watch Frozen! Come on.

4: i dont want to moooom!

Me: *singing let it go loudly*

4: ok ok ok lets watch Frozen

 

LOL

 

when doing adult stuff i try to find a way to make it fun. with music usually and sometimes i have my stuffies watch.

[PinkiePie84]

I feel like it usually makes it easier for me. I buy a lot of toys "for my kid".

[PrincessSnuffles]

I have 3 boys. The oldest is 6 and the youngest is 2. It has its pros and cons. There are times I really just wanna lay down and be alone with my paci and bunnies to decompress at stressful times during the day and that can't happen much anymore. But I have 3 little people to play games with, be silly with, and enjoy. They also make it socially acceptable to have fun in kiddie places like playgrounds, bouncy castles, toy stores, etc. all in all, I'm so glad I have them. They're my kid and I love them but they're also great playmates and friends.

[roseyposey]

^^ agreed. It can be hard when you want to escape and be little by yourself but having my daughter (2) to play with is amazing.

[PrincessClara]

I have a 10 year old, 8 year old and one on the way. I don't find having kids has any effect on my littlespace because I'm me no matter what. My kids come first always, but daddy makes sure I feel special and get spoiled just as much as they do. I'm pretty lucky

[chubbylilwolfcub]

I'm a little late to the party, but here goes.

 

Daddy and I have a daughter who is almost 4 months old. Being a little with a child can be difficult. Sometimes when I am in little space I don't wanna do things like make bottles and change diapers, but Daddy helps a lot when he sees I am struggling. I also feel a bit outcasted in some cg/l communitiea because of it, so it's nice to see so many other littles with kids. It can be fun too, because even though she is just a baby, she is really fun to play with. She loves my baby voice and little talk, loves when I read stories to her, likes to watch all my favorite shows and is a great cuddler. We also share stuffies, nd Daddy is great at making sure we are both loved and spoiled. We don't plan to keep our dynamic private from her, though we likely wont go into detail about some aspects of our relationship until/unless she is old enough to ask.

 

The hardest part for me was pregnancy. I couldn't stand being pregnant, I couldn't get fully into little space and I had a lot of emotional issues. We only wantes the one to begin with, but during my pregnancy we made the permanent decision to not have anymore becauae of how difficult pregnancy was for me both physically and emotionally.

[Guest Cuppycakelol]

I just found out I'm having a baby yesterday. I'm curious about if any other little on here have had kids, and how it affects their little side? Does it change your relationship with your daddy?

[Guest Daddy'sBabyGirl2017]

congrats!

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

I've seen this/similar threads around already. Try using search to check them out

[Himedere-Chan]

Here is a post I found by searching littles with kids.
https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/14423-littles-with-kids/?hl=littles+with+kids

They don't seem to be effected by having children at all.

[Nymph]

congrats!

We has 3 year old demon who bullies me a bit sometimes ;

 

Daddy spoiled me rotten while I was pregnant and now there is no need to hide stuffies and I can call her Daddy in public without feeling too awkward hahaha. I think depending on your personality you will enjoy some stages more than others but it's really cool when you are both enjoying playtime together.

 

The hardest part is when they get sick, strict medicine schedules, lack of sleep and begging them to eat kind of deal. That is some serious adulting right there and it's important Daddy can help you handle it, also be careful not to let him carry all the responsibility, it's too much for one person!

[Lokilove]

congrats!

We has 3 year old demon who bullies me a bit sometimes ;

 

Daddy spoiled me rotten while I was pregnant and now there is no need to hide stuffies and I can call her Daddy in public without feeling too awkward hahaha. I think depending on your personality you will enjoy some stages more than others but it's really cool when you are both enjoying playtime together.

 

The hardest part is when they get sick, strict medicine schedules, lack of sleep and begging them to eat kind of deal. That is some serious adulting right there and it's important Daddy can help you handle it, also be careful not to let him carry all the responsibility, it's too much for one person!

I'm not a little so don't know how this will change based on that, but as a parent with 2 teenage boys, if he is bullyish to you now nip it in the bud or it will get worse as he grows up. I love my sons but getting the right balance of independent thought and action while still doing what they are told by parents has been very difficult. I can't even imagine how much more of a challenge it would be with 1 parent as a little.

 

My sons always argue when I call them demonspawn. I say I should know being the demon that spawned you. They usually laugh and just go "true dat"

[Little_Twinkle]

I am a little who has a baby but it was before I became a little (which is harder then being pregnant as a little cause you are already used to being a little). I think one of the hardest things being a little with a baby is balancing your time especially with a newborn as you will be very tired and also very excited focusing mostly on your child. So the only thing you really have to worry about is balancing daddy time and baby time. I speak to my daddy all day as I am at work and have the time then after work I spend as much as possible with baby until he is asleep then I spend time with daddy (luckily we are in the same timezone just different continents). It isn't hard for me to move from little to mommy. Maybe during play time you can let your daddy suck your boobs *hides*

[Guest Cuppycakelol]

Thank you. I'm just scared this will change alot but I'm happy and excited too. I got used to being little almost all the time except when on base or out with daddy's friends. So the thought of not being able to be little or daddy not wanting to act like daddy with me scared me somewhat. I'm glad to see despite it being hard alot allot of people said they manage to still find a bit of little time.

[Alliekat93]

i find that it makes it both hard and easier at times like i can watch cartoons and loot at all the little kid stuff and no one will say anything about it but at the same time in a single mom so when my son needs me i come out of little space and in ther for him so i find my self being pulled out of little space alot cuz of him or wait for him to go to bed at night and have my little time then.

[LilPetPet]

One of the downsides I have noticed about being little is the proclivity to be selfish. This is true for me, I'm not accusing anyone else. Parenting and marriage and all of life, really (according to the example Jesus set for us) is to put others first, serving them in love. It can be hard to wish you had more "me time". It is what parents have to deal with. But don't lose sight of who you are sacrificing for. I tend to forget that. But then I look at my children's sweet faces and hear their giggles and I remember all over again. Your "me time" will come. And there will come a time when you will miss your kids and wonder how they grew up so fast. So don't let yourself worry about it. Enjoy taking care of your family. Enjoy your little time. It is all a blessing.

[BunnyNotKitten]

Are there any other Cg/Ls that are also parents? My Daddy/husband and I have 2 children, and I'm a homemaker. It's hard to find other couples in the lifestyle that have children and it would be nice to talk to other Littles that are also mothers and fathers. Does anyone have trouble with finding time for Little Space or insecurities about being a Little after dealing with the kids all day?

[plumflower]

I'm not a mother yet but I do plan to be the mother of my Daddy's children and I have my own fears of how much I can let my children see me be a little. I hope that you find what you are looking for. For now, my Daddy and I talked about my discipline and whether or not he can or will spank me in front of the kids.

[PrincessCupcake25]

I have a 5 year old and one on the way. Honestly, I can be my little self all the time. I am a stay at home mom, so we get to do a lot of little things.. I do find it hard to be a mean momma when I'm in little space tho.. I do have to think about eating actual meals during the day other than the things I want to eat. We do eat fun stuff, like monster nuggies and mac n cheese, peanut butter sandwiches with the crust cut off, fishy sticks, and waffles ^-^

 

Daddy does however find it difficult when we gang up on him when he's trying to be firm with us lol

[newlittleone]

I am new to this whole thing.  I am a mom, twice divorced and just discovered that I am, in fact, a little.   My boys are grown and out of the house and I found a Daddy and couldn't be happier.  I am looking for advice on how to be a little, when to be a little and how do I merge my little side (that I have repressed until this time in my life) with my adult side.