Starting out..

[Qxeenmicki]

I have a bf and im interested in ddlg, i call him daddy and i give little signs here and there.. i dont think he knows what im really trying to say and I don't think he knows about ddlg.. we like bdsm.. but i wanna make it more better and fun. How do I tell him about ddlg??

[Antoinette]

Ask him if he knows about DDlg, you won't get anywhere by beating around the bush and willing him to understand you. If he doesn't know what DDlg is tell him what you want out of DDlg within your relationship and what it means to you. A lot of people get put off from DDlg because they believe it has to involve certain things like diapers or pacifiers, when in realty it really doesn't have to - it can, if the people within the relationship so choose but it doesn't have to. 

 

So explain what DDlg means to you, ask him if he's interested and start slow. Be patient, if he's new to it, it's going to take some getting used to for him. Just make sure you wipe away any misconceptions right off the bat and make sure you explain to him that this is what you want with him, that it's important to you.