I need advice

[daddyslittlegurl]

My daddy just told me he wanted to add a new little to us and I told him he could do what ever he wanted just to warn me first so I'm not super suprized but I'm worryed my daddy doesn't love me or want me anymore .....pweese help me....

[Simong4]

I wish I could help you. I believe in only one little to a daddy...

[IchigoHime]

Have you tried voicing your concerns to Daddy? Or if you feel more comfortable, be involved with choosing the second little? If you honestly are concerned for your relationship with him with the addition of a new little, you really should talk with him and tell him. He should take your feelings into consideration. If he doesn't know how you feel, how can he correct the situation

[Guest SifuTheWolf]

I know there are lots of people that have ddlg relationships that are poly or play with others etc etc etc, point being there is no one size fits all cookie cutter for ddlg relationships, the goal is to find a partner that can fill your needs and be satisfied with what you have to offer. You can't tell your daddy he can do whatever he wants and then be unhappy about what he does, if you want to be monogamous for whatever reason you should say so. For myself having another little goes against EVERYTHING ddlg is about, I don't believe it's possible to give 100% of myself to more than one person and I damn sure don't want to have my little devoting even a minute to anyone else besides me. It's my personal opinion that people that have more than one ddlg relationship are merely role-playing ddlg, perhaps it is a "kink" to them, there is nothing wrong with that, as long as both sides want the same thing. One thing I can tell you for certain, your level of communication between yourself and your daddy isn't what it should be, you shouldn't be here asking strangers about their opinion on this matter, you should be expressing your concern to your daddy, the only opinions that really matter are yours and his.

[Guest trustlove]

first you need to know what you want.....are you ready in self to have another little by your side 24*7........what type of relationship do you want monogamous or poly.........you need to communicate with your Daddy and let him know your expectations,wishes and fears......what is important is your wishes and desires out of the relationship and normally or say important it is that you both understand each other and what I say is we need to talk beforehand what relation we are ready for.

[MrB]

I have to agree with everyone above you need to talk with him about this. It's always tricky with things like this I mean if someone wants a threesome or something similar it can just be a kink thing and some exploration but it's just the one night or so but having another girl completely in your relationship is difficult. I am aware of poly relationships and have nothing against them although I am aware of people who aren't really poly and go into something like this only to hate it later. Often the dom doesn't show enough love or care to them equally and seems more interested in the new plaything as he sees it. I'm really sorry that you are feeling this way but it could be that he feels he has to keep things exciting for you so if you talk with him he might decide to forget the whole thing and focus his love on you. However if he disregards your feelings or acts like it's not a big deal that is a danger sign that he is not a real daddy and just wants to have a kinky relationship without the real emotion.

[MoDaddy]

I agree with everything that has been said. You need to talk to your Daddy and tell him how you feel. Sounds like your wanting a monogamous relationship and he's looking for poly. You have the right to stand up for what you want and don't back down. Just because he's your Daddy doesn't mean he can make you do things you don't want to do. BOTH people need to agree. Talk to your Daddy and don't be afraid to hold your ground if you don't want this. If he doesn't listen, he's probably not the right Daddy for you. 

Best wishes!