Being a good little..

[Browniie]

So uhm Hi..

 

Well I am kinda wondering if there is a place where I can see how to be a good little.. Like when you are as single as a pringle. I mean I really want to find myself a daddy/caregiver but I do understand no one will want me if I don't know how to behave and be a cute and fun and sexy and all that stuff.. little..

 

So does anyone know a place or two???

 

THANKS IN ADVANCE!!!!!!!

[Guest]

Wellllll I can't help with the sexy part cuz I am an awkward little baby star fish (but lucky daddy is into my awkward shyness lol)

 

But joking a side you don't need to "act little " like someone else. You need to act like YOU. what little things make you happy ? Having a lot of stuffies ? Coloring ? (I love coloring and drawing for my daddy , other like making arts and crafts ) maybe watching cute movies and dancing and singing a long is your things.

 

The awesome things about being little is there is no right or wrong way to be you just gotta be YOUR WONDERFUL LITTLE SELF.

Edited October 28, 2016 by Guest

[Guest LiddlePwincess]

Being little should never be about becoming something for someone else. Its a personal journey that shouldnt be defined by being single or in a relationship. A caregiver should always be considered an extension not the sole purpose behind being a little.

 

You should be exploring what makes YOU happy first and whilst having a caregiver will no doubt do that it should not be the reason why your little. There is no "good little" every little is different and now more than ever people are allowed to make their own rules for happiness. You will one day find someone who loves you and cares for you because of who YOU are, not who you seem to be like.

 

Find things YOU like to do, maybe pastel colours, stuffies and colouring isnt your thing. Maybe it is. Either way your still a little because the parameters are defined by your own person opinion, not a set list that all littles have to follow.

 

You can be submissive and still have an opinion and likes and dislikes and needs. Please dont think the two are mutually exclusive. Id be more than happy to talk with you and help you figure out what makes you the happiest little you can be.

[Guest Cloud9Dreamer]

I agree with everyone else, being a "good little" isn't an act or something you learn, it's just who you are. Now, I've always considered myself cute, but too cute to be sexy. But my Daddy thinks my cuteness is sexy, so just use what you have and play on it! Be a tease, if that's something you think you'd be good at. Just be natural, be yourself, 'cause whoever becomes your caregiver will think you're adorable just as you are! And even if you're single as a pringle, there's plenty you can do to feel good about your Little side: set rules for yourself and rewards for when you do them, wear cute clothes and play with cute toys, watch lots of cartoons and Disney movies. Before I met my Daddy, I had a part of myself that acted as the caregiver, I call it my "mommy voice", and she told me to remember to eat and take showers, even helped me control my bipolar spending habits. When Daddy isn't talking to me, she "watches" over me and my Little self. And experiment with what makes you feel good, maybe pacis, maybe teething toys, bubble baths, naps, whatever you wanna do to make you feel as precious as you are.

[lilsnoopy]

you shouldn't have to make yourself be anything. Being little is in my personality, it's a huge part of who I am. I naturally can be a little bratty, or get scared without my nightlight, I hate being without daddy, I naturally have the desire in my to listen to him. It is not like being little is a skill you can learn and master, it should be inside of you. If it feels really forced or like you can't be little without learning how to then maybe you naturally aren't a little... I don't mean to be rude or anything. You can potentially be the most adorable little, just that's something I think anyone who is new/learning about ddlg needs to think about. It's  a lifestyle and it can be overwhelming if it's not who you really are. 

 

 

Don't stress yourself too much on labels, you seemed to do that. Just do you.