what happened

[Guest QueenJaylen]

okay so i'm venting right now i know this is the usual here in the forum but it hurts so so bad I was talking to this guy and and i thought we were getting some where we were talking for about a week we were still getting to know each other we had started using terms of endearment and i personally didn't think we were moving to fast. so at one point i asked him if he was talking to other girls and i said if you are just tell me because i dont wanna be to invested in our relationship and then get hurt and then he goes no babe the last thing i wanna do is hurt you are something like that and then we decided to video chat and when we did at first i didn't talk and i started we were on for like five minutes and then he said someone was calling him and then he hung up and we haven't talked since and i don't know if he thought i was ugly or what he has read my messages and doesn't reply and he has been online and he decided to choose the perfect time to stop talking to me right when i need someone to he just stops talking to me and i don't know if it's because i didn't talk or what i just feel so bad right now. 

[Beasourous]

*hugs* i don't think it is your fault at all. I don't think you did anything wrong. But i am sorry to say this but this guy is just not into you. He should have be brave and tell you so that you can have a closure and move on. But sadly, that is how it is like now. Taking the coward way out and just "disppear".

 

It is his loss for giving up on you like that. You will find someone better. 

[Guest OverDaddy'sKnee]

I agree with Beasourous. Don't beat yourself up over this. There are better opportunities out there.

[FLdaddy]

You did nothing wrong! You took your time and tried to get to know him. So as far as I can see you did everything right. If he was talking to others then wanted to stop because you were asking questions so he cut tail and ran. He was about to be caught more than likely and instead of you finding out and calling him out on it he just stopped talking to you. So I wouldn't give it another thought and move on.

[Guest thequeenslittle]

you did aboslutley nothing wrong. forget about him it sounds like he had something to hide and didnt want you to find out even if it meant leaving you. your an amazing person and will find someone who you deserve becasue trust me you deserve better.  have a wonderful day and if you need someone to talk to message me

[CallmeCoups21]

He doesn't sound like he was a good person to just up and ghost fade. Theres NOTHING wrong with u but something with him. I hope and pray u heal up.

[Secret-ingredient]

it might not be the case in this instance, but it is interesting to consider this some people have internal struggle, they want happiness but fear it at the same time, they feel that if they let themselves get to comfortable it will feel worse when it all falls through. it might be just not wanting to disappoint people feeling your not good enough for someone that seems to have it all together whilst never realising that everyone is imperfect it. can be that self deprecating unappreciative sense that omniscient voice that lingers in the back of your head that tells your your not good enough or even that they are to good for you so just let it go be alone and you will cause less harm to those around you that would be better off not knowing you even exist because why would anyone want to know you right.... your not special your not different or zany or as kind as everyone else seems to be. so no matter how much they tell you to talk it out, to reach out, to just let go of the self judgement in the back of your mind there is that familiar voice.  

 

 

sorry if that dragged on a bit i just kinda kept typing . hopefully this might help