Rules for your caregiver...

[PrincessBee]

Does anyone have rules for their caregivers? Set expectations as your caregiver?

[LoralieHaze]

All my thoughts on this topic can be found here in this post.

Edited October 26, 2016 by LittleKittenLo

[PrincessBee]

Well it's more or less that he works a lot and so in my free time I do send him reading material. Other than that we discuss together. But if you'd like to add me I don't mind addressing it privately. ^.^

[griffinlord775]

I do, but they're more guidelines for the perfect caregiver for me rather than requirements.

[Dorky]

I do, but they're more guidelines for the perfect caregiver for me rather than requirements.

am I the only person who read this in Captain Jack Sparrow's voice?

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

I'm gonna agree with Lo on this one...

My Daddy doesn't need rules, at least not from me. I trust him to take care of me, make and enforce rules for me... why would I be telling him what to do? He does need to be able to know how to care for himself before he can effectively care for me.

 

I have no desire to be dominate, and the thought honestly terrifies me. Even if I was able to make rules for him, I would never be able to enforce them.

[Dumbledork'sPrincess]

I have no desire to be dominate, and the thought honestly terrifies me. Even if I was able to make rules for him, I would never be able to enforce them.

This, so much!!!!!

[Guest thequeenslittle]

okay so mommy knows i have like certain things i want or expect in our relattionship but no set rules i trust her to tske care of me completelt as my mommy

[ziva vlad's kitten]

Yes and no... Mostly no.

In my rules it says,

"Limit bite force to a comfortable level and don't use biting as punishment.

 

kittens don't punish their Owners."

 

See right there? I am not allowed to punish him, so what good would it do to have rules if I can't punish? That rule is there because I really really do like to bite when I am upset, but I'm only allowed to bite in playful ways. I am not so good with words, I would rather bite.

So there is the no part.

 

However, there are things relationshipwise

that are super important to me. Example, I am 100% monogamous, my Owner knows this. So in a way, you might could say it's a rule that I am his only sexual relationship, but I feel like the word obligation is a better fit. So, that is as close as I get to having any rules for my Owner.

 

In a M/s blog I like to read, she posted their contract and rules, here is a link.

 

http://www.sirandbabydoll.com/?page_id=484

 

her Dom has rights, duties, and obligations in the contract, but no rules. I like that.

[winterchild]

i never thought about that and no, i don't have any rules for my Daddy and Sir. He's the most polite person i ever met and He don't need any rules, especially not from me! He knows all my limits and respects them, He understands my fears and my behaviour and that's it! He don't need them, His love to me is all He needs. <3